Thread: Virginity

nothign wrong with it dude...

I was a virgin till I was your age. When you are ready you will be ready

Im still a virgin at 15 does that mean im in the same boat?




Okay dude, please stop watching t.v. You are being corrupted by society's sex-image. They project this image that if you dont lose your virginity by the time your out of highschool, then your a total loser. And thats not true because whether people are holding out or it just hasnt happened, its not going to make them any better or less than the person who screwed 7 different people in the last 5 days.

Well actually, that person would be a whore , and that'd probably make you a better person, but thats not my point!

I mean, think of it this way, at least you know you dont have herpes!! yet

A friend of my sister's was recently in the same boat. though he was 20. Anyway, his friend pooled their money and got him a prostitute. Now he is no longer a virgin.

I was a virgin until 22, purely by choice, and even though i thought i was ready, i picked the wrong guy to lose it to, so i have a little bit of regret about the whole situation

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Your time will come

Being a virgin sucks...only a select few want to be a virgin, but most guys want to fuck because it feels good. Everyone's initial reaction is..."Oh, don't listen to society...and its pressure to have sex." Wanting to fuck is a natural desire and you're usually at your sexual peak before you hit your 20s. I think our desire to have sex has more to do with our bodies and its emotions then some message out there that society is trying to push on us.

To get sex you need to learn how to meet people of the opposite sex...I don't think I can help you since I have problems with that and you haven't explained why you haven't been able to get in an intimate relationship with someone else. All you're saying is you're a virgin and don't like it...it's hard to help you with such little info.

If you're aware of what the problem is then why haven't you taken any of the necessary steps to fix it? For instance, become more aggressive. I'm in the same boat too...I know I should act one way, but I always revert to my old ways of being coy and non-aggressive. I think, ultimately, it's a fear of putting yourself out there and as long as that fear is there you won't get any pussy. There's tons of books, tapes, colognes...etc, etc...out there that promise to get your girls, but I think it all comes down to overcoming the fear in your mind. You either overcome it or you don't. I think it's as simple as that. If you're afraid to tell a girl that she has a nice smile then you're definitely thinking too much...I doubt that would scare her away. Maybe you need to 'test' your beliefs. So, you think she'll be scared away...then try telling her she has a nice smile and see what happens. That 'testing' trick works wonders with really irrational thoughts.

Whenever I'm presented with the opportunity to 'put myself out there' I always come up with an excuse not to. Very rarely will I go 'out there'...but it's been known to happen. Last time I made out with a girl was because I didn't chicken out....I had a running dialogue in my head not to go talk to her, but eventually I did and it paid off. I do think the answer to your problems is simple...just put yourself out there and be more aggressive, but actually doing that isn't so simple, I find. Doing is everything...all this talk doesn't mean shit unless you act on it. I don't do...I don't get.

i'm still a virgin, it's not really a big deal

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It&#39;s not by choice, that&#39;s for sure. The reason why I can&#39;t get into an intimate relationship with a girl is because I tend to suffer from the "nice guy" syndrome. I&#39;m not aggressive enough when I need to be.

For example, I was with a lady-friend the other day who I think is very cute. We haven&#39;t known each other for a long time. We are in the same class and I just started to get to know her over the past week. I wanted to tell her that I that she had a nice smile, but I was afraid that i&#39;d scare her off. Then to make myself feel better, I&#39;d say that it was better off that I didn&#39;t say anything because she probably would get frightened and stay away from me completely.[/b]

Im exactly the same dude. 18 and a virgin, had a couple of gfs but i couldnt care less. it does suck not being able to ask girls out though.

Being a virgin is horrible. I intend to lose my virgnity before I turn 17, but I have no idea how I&#39;m gonna do that, and I have only about 6 months left

14 yr old virgin and theres a lot of pressure out there that you should lose your virginty but i think theres a lot more virgins out there than we all think theres lots of people that ive been really suprised to find out were but i dont mind a guy thats a virgin at my age sometimes i even prefer that (you know they dont have stds)

you should probably just try to focus on having a relationship first

if you meet a girl you like instead of just trying to be friends first try to ask her out. you seem like the more sweet type so compliment her on her smile and her eyes to start with take her to nice places put your arm around her hold hands sit close to her etc.. and ask her out after a few days or mabe a week (its better to do that sooner b/c if your friends for a long time first theres more at stake to loose) Be persistant even if she seems a bit reluctant she may just be shy or not sure (dont stalk her or anyting tho) just show the girl you really like her

Hey yo.... i dind&#39;nt lose my virginity til about 6 mnths ago.... most of my friends had lost thiers when they were like 15/16 but fcuk it..... it did&#39;nt used to bother me!! me and my friends used to joke about it all tha time... don&#39;t let it get to you bro. im sure there are more important things in your life that you need to worry about...