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    Before you start dating your boyfriend, he writes this on a girl's myspace picture:

    "I don't know what it is, but the older you get the more beautiful and youthful you look. You are like an anomaly that has tapped into some fountain of mysterious youth. DAMN you look good and I want some hehehe !!! "

    4 months into dating, you see this on another one of her pictures:

    "Wow! Nice glasses chica. You have accomplished the "I am geeky but ridiculously sexy!" look . "


    Do you get jealous?

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    I wouldnt get jealous as much as i would be thinking 'damn im dating a total tool'. Who says that shit?

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    I don't know if you can get jealous about something that happened before you dated. And i think the latest comment is innocent enough. He's just paying the girl a compliment. Is it a friend, or just some random girl? I'd be more worried if it was a random girl.
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    I would be more concerned about the "hehehe" part. Men shouldn't say that.

    He might as well just write,*giggle* instead.


    But if it's bothering you, just bring it up. Don't keep it inside and let it boil over later when he makes another comment.
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    Ten bucks if he's anything like the insecure fuckcakes that I know, he'll turn it around on you and say "what the hell were you doing spying on my myspace messages?".

    If you can come up with a good answer to that, just incase, then confront away...otherwise, try and work out if his behaviour is dodgy by what he does/how he acts not what he says. And you can bet that whatever way you approach this kind of issue is going to make you look insecure...but yeah I agree with Fruity and you can't judge someone for writing a message to someone else before you dated.
    Syco- "The Empress is the latter leg of this triad, representing the physical body and the material world. From her comes all the pleasure of the senses and the abundance of life in all its forms. She is also the mother archetype, and through her we get a first glimpse of the power of love in the Tarot." I think this is all representative of awesomly large tits, no?
    Sweet as the Punch.

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    I'm with smirk. If it bothers you, then I would tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he posts comments like that on other girls' pictures. Don't go all jealousy and pouty on him... just tell him.
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    TheMadCatter @ Jun 23 2008, 06:36 PM:
    Get the fuck off my board you bitch.

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    how about you ask yourself why you're wasting your time on myspace looking at picture comments and dramatizing it? This isn't the new season of Laguna Beach, that show ended years ago.

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