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    BF and Sex

    My bf and I have been dating for 6 months, and absolutely adore each other. We both are saving ourselves for marriage, but lately we have been getting insanely horny when we hang out. I was wondering if anyone knew of any alternatives to sex that would get it out of our systems, because neither of us wants to have sex at this point in our relationship.
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    oral? fingering? handjobs?
    toys? porn?
    u could always dry hump. hah.
    'Cause I'm that fool that broke the key- I'm unlockable so don't check me- I got weight on my shoulders and things on my mind- The sky is falling and I'm falling behind... No shame in my game just par for the path- I try to hone my craft because at hand's the task- But I find I'm not playing with a full deck- I'm up to my neck like Toulouse Lautrec

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    just be aware that as soon as you start any of that stuff, its all down hill. You allow yourself to be fingered, and then you allow oral, and then you are telling yourself it doesn't count if its less than 5 thrusts, or you have anal, because then maybe technically you can still class yourself as a virgin.

    I've been there. It was pathetic. If you really want to be true to the whole waiting until marriage don't cross any of those boundaries. If you aren't really that keen on it after all, sit down and talk about it now. You don't need to rush into sex straight away, but just be honest with yourself.
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    Boooo religion. Gets in the way of a good time.

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    I 100% agree with Fruity, good honest post there because it was true to me everything said, so from mine and Fruity's experience don't even go there with alternatives to sex.

    The best thing to do is go out in public places! So your aware you can't do those sort of things. Don't be alone just you two in private because you'll get tempted easily.

    Who ever is the stronger person out of you two, they should be encouraged for support and not tempted by the other person.

    Hope that helps.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Anon View Post
    .....We both are saving ourselves for marriage, but lately we have been getting insanely horny when we hang out. ...... neither of us wants to have sex at this point in our relationship.
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    Seems to be some contradictions there...

    What is motivating your decision to fight your passion for each other? Don't get me wrong. I respect a decision to 'save yourselves for marriage' but frankly if you are so attracted and hot for each other, why are you torturing yourselves? Religious reasoning aside, there is nothing wrong with questioning the decision to wait if you both feel like you are at a point where you're committed to each other, ready and truly desire each other.

    I for one believe that sex is a big part of knowing if you are with the right person. It should be carefully considered and not just jump each other after the first night but after 6 months, I'd think that it would be time to really think about moving to that next level. Of course that is just me....

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    just get married then...
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    i was talkin to my bf on the cell today, and i thought he said
    "i'm gonna marry you someday"
    and i said "oh really?"
    and he said "yeah. it really tingles"
    "um... what?"
    "nair. it really tingles."
    "ohhh. ok."

    he said "i'm gonna nair you one day."

    i'm a rehtahd.
    'Cause I'm that fool that broke the key- I'm unlockable so don't check me- I got weight on my shoulders and things on my mind- The sky is falling and I'm falling behind... No shame in my game just par for the path- I try to hone my craft because at hand's the task- But I find I'm not playing with a full deck- I'm up to my neck like Toulouse Lautrec

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    i think he'd more likely be classed as a rehtahd for wanting to nair you. I find that bizarre

    what was he nairing?
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    he's a freak. i didn't ask him what he'd naired... i was talking about hating being hairy and he said he'd nair me- that was a few days ago. then he brought it up today. random.
    'Cause I'm that fool that broke the key- I'm unlockable so don't check me- I got weight on my shoulders and things on my mind- The sky is falling and I'm falling behind... No shame in my game just par for the path- I try to hone my craft because at hand's the task- But I find I'm not playing with a full deck- I'm up to my neck like Toulouse Lautrec

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gutter View Post
    just get married then...

    Exactly, if both of you are so inclined to commit to such an arrangement than you are more compatible than anyone else you will ever meet. Just tie the knot and be happy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gutter View Post
    just get married then...

    Agreeed!! You're just going to drive yourself crazy.
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