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    Would She Lie About Abortion?

    I had a one night stand with a girl who thought I was into her. I was drunk. I confessed that I wasnt really that interested the next morning. She was kind of mad but not too mad. A month later I got a flirty txt from a number I didnt reconize, and I assumed it was her messing with me. So I asked if it was her and I got a txt back saying "who's that? is she dirty?" I responded with "Eh I'd never touch her." Then 20 minutes later I get a call from the one night stand saying she was pregnant and needed money help with the abortion. I told her I was broke, and asked if she could ask he parents for help or get on a payment plan. Long story short she said she went through with it. I think she might have been screwing with my head. But if she wasn't, what are the odds she'd lie and keep it? If she planned on keeping it do you think she'd even have called me in the first place?

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    How in the world are we supposed to know what she really did? I know that sounds rude but its true.. There's no way we could know what she did or what she could do. I say just step up and ask her for some proof... if you really want to know. I'm sure she got some sort of like Post Treatment Paperwork or such. If she says she doesn't want to show you then most likely she's bluffing you. And even if she is pregnant.. it doesn't mean that the baby is even your's..

    But if you know she's messing with you... Call her back or text her and tell her you just tested Postitive for HIV and just wanted her to know.

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    Yes I understand that but as a female would you like and keep it? I don't see the reasoning but then again Im not female.

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    Well... I hate that abortion is an option for anyone.. but "As a female" if I got pregnant by some random guy from a one night stand that wasn't at all interested in me... I can't say I would want to have a life raising a child in that situation.. Going through pregnancy alone, delivery alone, raising a newborn/toddler/kid alone, visitation, court, custody battles, fighting for child support, finding another man who would except the child, dealing with the baby's step mom (whoeever you end up with), having to go to school functions around a guy who got me pregnant and dropped me, all in the mean time you have basically have NO RESPONSIBILTY except MAYBE forking out a measly 20% out of your paycheck.. If you choose to work....

    I think her route would be easier. I dont know what I'd do though... just from an onlooker.. and a mother... I think it would be tough..

    And you said that you thought she was fakely text messaging you.... and you're going around having one night stands with woman you couldn't care lessa bout.. then both of you probably aren't mature enough to actually care for a child anyways..

    The way you talk you make it sound like you wanted her to keep the baby? If you care that much and are wondering why not just call her like an ADULT (or parent) and find out what's really going on.. All crap aside.
    Last edited by Chandra; 10-29-2009 at 06:34 PM.

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    No I dont want the baby. I'm mainly worried about being suprised with child support in 9 months. and lets be honest, shes the most unattractive girl Ive ever been with, and I've been with 35+..... so not only would it fuck up my genes, I wouldnt even be able to see anything working out between us for the child.

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    Well then hope for your, the chick's, and the baby's sake that she did abort. She sounds to immature, you sound to shallow, and that poor baby probably wouldn't have a chance. Quick being such a wimp and just call her and find out. Either that or just worry yourself to death about it or keep posting on forums to people who can't answer your question and next time you take a dive in the bed with an ugly chick.. or any chick for that matter use protection and it will avoid you have to worry about child support, messing up your genes, or having to load up a forum. Just be a man and call her and be mature about it and if she did.. No worries... if she didn't.. worry.. and if she lied.. then tell her you have HIV. Period.


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    she might not have lied. Maybe she could have been thinking about getting an abortion when she rang you and just changed her mind. But you aren't really in a position to tell her what to do. That's really up to her to decide.
    Do you even know for sure that she is pregnant? As easy as she could have lied about having an abortion, she could have lied about even being pregnant. scam you out of a couple of hundred dollars as pay back for saying you wouldn't touch her. That's a rather hurtful thing to say to someone without checking the identity of the person

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    I had a situation where this girl broke up with me and then we had a one night stand and a baby scare the next day. She told me even if she were pregnant she didn't want support, then she took the test and wouldn't show me but she said it was negative. So I could be a daddy and not know. Though I'd pay support and want to be involved with the kid if she does come up one day and say 'this is yours' I'd still want to see a paternity test first.

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    Holy shit Chandra is back! hey dude!

    It could def be possible. girls are psycho. once, when i was 17, i rang a boy to tell him i was pregnant. to be fair, it was like 2 days later, and he was really dumb for believing me, but to this day i still feel a little guilty.

    in the end, who knows what she did? not your problem dude.
    she's not that kind of a girl, booger!

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    I think you're being played. Finances aside, an abortion is physically and emotionally demanding. It's not like getting your teeth cleaned so her response to you stinks of someone with a rich fantasy life. Ask her for some details about the procedure, location, consultation beforehand, recovery time, how uncomfortable, actual cost etc. and see what her answers are.
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    I've never been that drunk to not remember to wrap it up... Especially one night stands, and a bottle of 151..


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    Thats messed up!!!

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