Thread: Selling myself to get through hard times

are you at all worried about stds?

I dunno, it seems to me that giving a blowjob is more 'gay' than receiving one. It's relatively passive, isn't it? The only real thing of importance here is what you're comfortable with and willing to do. You could have the entire world telling you it's fine and yet still feel uncomfortable, and that's okay. Your body, you get to decide.

I guess it depends on how you view sex, really. Do you really feel devalued by this or only a little weirded out?

People have done far worse things to get by in tough times.

Yeah but I don't really think whoring your dick out to gay bar-owners is really a kosher way to get cash.

Getting a blow-job from a dude is pretty 'gay' and if you find it too gay for you then I think you're going to end up pretty scarred from this hole thing. And what if he decides to get you totally wasted and flashes $1000 for a something more?

There are plenty of people who've started by doing stuff like this when they're desperate for cash who have ended up in some very dark places indeed. If you're going to do it again, for fuck's sake don't see it as an easy source of cash because becoming a dick-for-hire is not something you want to be long-term obviously.

I'm sorry but the difference between people whoring themselves out for an easy quick buck and those struggling and keeping their chin up is dignity. It's up to you if you want to sacrifice it.

I wish I could get a woman to pay me, I'd definately consider it as well..

edit.. sorry didn't see that it was a gay guy that was giving you a bj, definately not the right path to righteousness..

get a job...stop living outside your means and you wont have to pimp ur dick out to gay mouths. um also why dont you just go work at a gay strip club if thats your take on gayness atleast youd make some more money

My GOD I hope the OP is Catter or Brokensound.

It's probably some random.

...or Craven Morehead. That would be a delightful irony.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If a beautiful woman wanted to go down on me, and I was single, and wanted to pay for me as well, I'd totally go for it!!!

Was he cute? Or can't you say cuz you're straight?

Originally Posted by Tia

I dunno, it seems to me that giving a blowjob is more 'gay' than receiving one. It's relatively passive, isn't it? The only real thing of importance here is what you're comfortable with and willing to do. You could have the entire world telling you it's fine and yet still feel uncomfortable, and that's okay. Your body, you get to decide.

I guess it depends on how you view sex, really. Do you really feel devalued by this or only a little weirded out?

Good reply.

Well, he's already said he feels like he's lowering himself by doing this and due to the fact he's straight I'd bet he's not exactly into it. So y'know, that's what's wrong with it.

I reckon that if it was a girl posting you guys would have a different view on it.

In the end I don't think there is a right or wrong answer. But there is a smart and dumb answer. Sure, according to most social standards, pimping your dick to other men isn't even remotely o.k. Although, neither is striping, prostituting, selling drugs, etc.

My first thought was to say "This is f.ed up. Don't go there, dude."

But, it really comes down to what you are and are not OK with. If you do decide you are comfortable with this situation and this way of making money, make damn sure that you realize that this isn't something you will be able to wash yourself of once your through.

And the types of people who are attracted to this type of lifestyle are 99% of the time total scum. Some bar owner who walks around with 3 Gs in his pocket doesn't sound as if he had a really good night making tips from bartending. It sounds like he has jobs or hobbies on the side that require him to carry around large sums of money. And that is not good.

Also, remember there is a chance of STDs, someone in your future that you would like to deveop a relationship with may not be able to look past this part of your life, and the people participating in this lifestyle are not generally good people.

Good luck.