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  1. 05-15-2010 02:36 PM #1
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    dull sex issue?

    Well me and my gf have known each other for about 11yrs now and have just started dating for the past 4 months. She was a complete virgin hymen intact and all.... anyway my question is we've been having sex for the past 3months and she was in pain at first and then she liked it and now its kinda dull... sometimes

    Just to give a visual for you guys I have a 6 15/16" length 5"width penis is that small? Yes i measured it. I mean shes super tight still, but when she gets super lubed it feels like i'm gliding and somehow I feel like i'm not rubbing inside her enough... sometimes she acts like she doesn't feel anything and that really brings down my mood usually i can go for about 30mins on average in all honesty, so i don't see why she would be so dull.... We love each other to death I swear and she is so obsessed with me lol so i dont get it... She reacts when I first go inside but after that its kinda dull

    Example: shes on her back, legs open Im in/out she feels it! i can clearly see it in her eyes but when she gets on top its like .....*crickets..... its like my penis shrinks 3 sizes and she doesn't act like she does when shes on her back.
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  2. 05-15-2010 10:45 PM #2
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    Since she was a virgin before you got together, maybe she is just insecure and even a little bit scared to try new positions. I know that I personally don't get too much out of being on top, but my boyfriend and I compromise and try new things to spice it up. You should try talking to her about it (without laughing and really paying attention to her feelings) because she may just need to figure out what feels good for her. Communication in the bedroom is very important!
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    Well thanks for your kind words. I was thinking maybe it could be the lack of deep communication too. I'll work on that and see what happens
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    If neither of you are enjoying it, why do you continue to use that position? Are they the only positions you use?
    Communication is definitely the key. Its time to explore a bit further and discover what drives each other wild.
    True beauty is an exchange, not an observation. - Lucid Rog
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    hmm wifes like that sometimes gets to wet to fast and then cant feel a thing best thing to do when that kinda thing happens is just pull out and kiss her body or give her a lick or ask her to give you one just take a minute or two really doesnt have to be long just enough for her to lose some of her wetness so you can both feel each other again. on the other note the advice givin already is good, but i suggest that you just talk more about what your both feeling and sometimes you have to take turns at whos doing the work and just go with it cant always be in control.
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