Thread: Insecure?

Don't most people??

I think a lot of people who ask for advice are looking for somebody to give them the answer they're looking for. I suppose they're kind of looking for some validation for what they want to do in any given situation.

Originally Posted by Anon

Its not that I do not consider your advice. Most women cheat plain and simple, or at least they've considered it seriously at one point or another. Almost every woman I've ever encountered in my life have shown signs of cheating or mad flirting with men whether they're married or dating. I'm sorry but with my experiences I just analog everything involuntarily and the more I watch the more I'm not surprised. If you are one of the few that do not cheat or think about it congratulations and you should be proud of yourself because you are few.

Have you considered that it may be the type of people you associate with? It's a rather broad statement to say that 'most women cheat'. It could just as easily be said that 'most men cheat' but I'm not sure there are stats and data to back either of those up. Maybe I'm naive but I'd like to think that most women and men don't cheat and generally when it does happen, it means there are serious underlying issues in the relationship.

The other thing to think about is that many people have different ideas of what cheating is. Some may find that anything more than kissing is cheating while others may think that flirting is. Some may believe that kissing is fine but more than that isn't. It's up to the couple to decide their comfort level and feelings about the subject and establish that definition early on in the relationship.

Personally, my boyfriend and I decided that flirting is not okay so that's where our line is drawn. But like I said, everybody has different feelings on the subject.

Originally Posted by emsgrl

Have you considered that it may be the type of people you associate with? It's a rather broad statement to say that 'most women cheat'. It could just as easily be said that 'most men cheat' but I'm not sure there are stats and data to back either of those up. Maybe I'm naive but I'd like to think that most women and men don't cheat and generally when it does happen, it means there are serious underlying issues in the relationship.

The other thing to think about is that many people have different ideas of what cheating is. Some may find that anything more than kissing is cheating while others may think that flirting is. Some may believe that kissing is fine but more than that isn't. It's up to the couple to decide their comfort level and feelings about the subject and establish that definition early on in the relationship.

Personally, my boyfriend and I decided that flirting is not okay so that's where our line is drawn. But like I said, everybody has different feelings on the subject.

Most women do cheat and so do Most men. People do have their own opinions yes, and in my opinion people that act like animals should just go live in the forest be animals and hump every woman or man they see. I know a lot of females that spread their legs and let practically any man penetrate their dirty vagina's as long as they get their kicks too. This honestly makes me feel sad in a strange kind of way. The weirdest thing is most of these females are respectable and nice but they just like to get plugged all the time its kind of depressing.

Maybe it is just the crowd I'm with? I don't know maybe. If it is then the majority of this country is sick with lust and love will soon become just a dream only kids will have.

You are right. Some people think kissing is not cheating and some people think it is cheating Just like some people think farting at the dinner table is normal and some think its disgusting, If you keep farting at the table one day your gonna wet ur undies. We all have our own opinions but sometimes in order for our civilization to prosper and progress there has to be laws or rules at the very least otherwise we will be nothing but savages in the end, Men thinking that taking other men's wives and women taking other womens husbands is ok or just households of men and women living and fucking together like a bunch of wild animals.

I believe from my experience that most women are just too willing to open their legs to a handsome guy doesn't matter who he is as long as he looks good and has a penis to stab you with its good enough.

Has most of the female population fallen so far? or is it just desperation for attention? Again I'll say that I don't believe all women are like that, there's still some hope women will regain their self respect.

Guys are animals and are not to be trusted lol j/k Most guys are douche bags and some are pretty respectable, If a guy can get along with me without checking out my wife he's cool in my book but most have failed and have fallen into my 'look at my wife like that again and i'll kick your ass' category

studies accually show that the womens pleassure chemicals accually go up when they are cheating or seducing a married man... why cause women are a bunch of hoes...

guys accually dont think straight when we are aroused... something with the chemical inbalanced.

Originally Posted by Anon

Most women do cheat and so do Most men. People do have their own opinions yes, and in my opinion people that act like animals should just go live in the forest be animals and hump every woman or man they see. I know a lot of females that spread their legs and let practically any man penetrate their dirty vagina's as long as they get their kicks too. This honestly makes me feel sad in a strange kind of way. The weirdest thing is most of these females are respectable and nice but they just like to get plugged all the time its kind of depressing.

Maybe it is just the crowd I'm with? I don't know maybe. If it is then the majority of this country is sick with lust and love will soon become just a dream only kids will have.

You are right. Some people think kissing is not cheating and some people think it is cheating Just like some people think farting at the dinner table is normal and some think its disgusting, If you keep farting at the table one day your gonna wet ur undies. We all have our own opinions but sometimes in order for our civilization to prosper and progress there has to be laws or rules at the very least otherwise we will be nothing but savages in the end, Men thinking that taking other men's wives and women taking other womens husbands is ok or just households of men and women living and fucking together like a bunch of wild animals.

I believe from my experience that most women are just too willing to open their legs to a handsome guy doesn't matter who he is as long as he looks good and has a penis to stab you with its good enough.

Has most of the female population fallen so far? or is it just desperation for attention? Again I'll say that I don't believe all women are like that, there's still some hope women will regain their self respect.

Guys are animals and are not to be trusted lol j/k Most guys are douche bags and some are pretty respectable, If a guy can get along with me without checking out my wife he's cool in my book but most have failed and have fallen into my 'look at my wife like that again and i'll kick your ass' category

Did Peaches come back as a man????

Originally Posted by Anon

I know a lot of females that spread their legs and let practically any man penetrate their dirty vagina's as long as they get their kicks too. This honestly makes me feel sad in a strange kind of way. The weirdest thing is most of these females are respectable and nice but they just like to get plugged all the time its kind of depressing.

You admitted before to being the sort of guy who sleeps with women who let you. Or you were. Hopefully not now that you are engaged. So why is it all the women's fault. Why is it that the female population has 'fallen'? Do the men have no responsibility at all?

I think its a dangerous assumption to make that men have no control and can do whatever they like and that its up to women to singlehandedly try and reign that in.

I really wish you weren't Anon, because I'd really like to get to know you further, and learn more about you as a person beyond this post.

I think another reason some people get so antsy about their partner cheating is because its a weakness of their own, that they project on to their partner. People who cheat are more likely to jump to the conclusion that their partner is also cheating on them

girls out number men 3 to 1 so that means you have 2 lonely girls doing what ever they can to get ur man... guys do not in most cases think straight if they are attracted to something the girl is showing or offering. you also have to take in the natural reproduction brain of a man hes suppost to pass his seed on to all the flowers to make sure the human race survives so a guy has to fight his body to not do something while his brain shuts down on him cause of chemicals kinda like impossable

If we work with that idea, women have this uncontrollable desire to constantly be pregnant, so no wonder some women have to shag the nearest man.

what solves all of these problems? allowing men to have more then one wife what do you all think of that? lol

Assuming that girls do outnumber guys 3:1, what about the girls who aren't into guys? That'd make a more even playing field.

I dunno. Girls and guys both are responsible for their actions and no amount of 'can't control themselves' will excuse that. There are plenty of people who are happy in monogamous relationships and don't cheat.