Thread: Insecure?

I have just decreased my intelligence by a third just by reading this thread.

Looking forward for your happiness. And just keep update for the next level on your life!

Originally Posted by Anon

Thanks guys for the help. Since I posted this I've gotten myself in my right mind, I suppose partly because she has proposed to me and we've been having the greatest sex (mentally and physically) of our lives!!! Ah yes and she has completely stopped talking to guys except for work purposes and from what I can see its professional. I can spot a fake 200miles away so Im sure she's being truthful to me for the time being at least. The past week or so has been wonderful! Being me, I can't let myself fall completely head over heals blind with love just yet. Though I do love her I will observe her closely for the next few years and If all is well we will have children. Wish me luck.

wow, control freak much?

I really hope that you don't have children because this marriage isn't going to last, in fact i doubt that you'll even get married. Why? Because this woman is going to wake up one day, look at you and wonder what the hell is so good about you that she has changed her entire personality and throw you out.

Your posts have thrown up a lot of red flags -
you want to totally control this woman, to the extent that you are demanding that she changes who she is

you say that you would kick the arse of any of your friends who check out your wife, so does that mean that you are going to want to lock her away from the world so that no-one except you gets to see her?

as for your 'most women cheat' - do you not see the hypocrisy in your statements regarding that? you say that these married and engaged women will open their legs for anyone, yet you don't have a problem with having been that someone?

and wtf is the 'going to observe her for a few years'? is she a science experiment?

you are not ready for marriage - in my opinion, and you did ask - in fact I don't think that you are ready for a relationship
from what you have posted I think that you are a misogynist, that you are really controlling, have double standards when it comes to morals, that you are going to make this womans life a misery, you are extremely arrogant
I hope this all resolves itself, but I don't think it will. The only positive is that you won't have children until this woman proves herself 'worthy', and I really hope that she doesn't just decide to get pregnant as some sort of proof of how much she loves you.
I think that you need to grow up a bit, and experience more of the real world

you say that 'and to this day these women still prove me right'

do you include your present partner in that category?
do you think that because of your previous experience's with women you are judging your currant partner by those standards?
are you becoming more confident in your partner?
how does she feel about all the demands you are making on her?

Originally Posted by rebbie

you say that 'and to this day these women still prove me right'

do you include your present partner in that category?
do you think that because of your previous experience's with women you are judging your currant partner by those standards?
are you becoming more confident in your partner?
how does she feel about all the demands you are making on her?

Yes I included her in that category for a time, not just because Shes a woman but because she was the 'typical' (Flirty/Wants Attention from everyone) woman for awhile. she told me she was confused before she met me, she didn't know what she wanted and because of that, flirting helped her feel better, and because everything anti relationship I've pointed out is common sense.

I understand the reasoning behind her past way of thinking because, I will admit that flirting around with women and knowing you've got them by the legs before you've even got them by the legs can be quite the adrenaline rush. This is of course a thing of the past for me.

They are not demands. I've asked her if she does not like the way I want things then she can leave. I don't see anything wrong with telling your partner that you do not want them fiddling with other people of the opposite sex. If they cannot resist then they will not last in a serious relationship let alone a marriage. Unless of course your a swinger and love to see your husband banging another woman's vagina or love to see your wife's vagina banged all over the floor by another guy because then your just messed up and you have no idea what marriage is about, and I wouldn't call it a 'serious' relationship either.

She tells me that she loves the way I want her and look out for her so much. That it makes her happy and I should keep telling her if she does something stupid. I said she just better not be stupid, she has her own mind and she should use it to spot anything stupid before doing it.

Shes so beautiful and now I think shes starting to have a brain and logic too! She is finally leaving the realm of the typical stupid woman. Guys are stupid too, but I'm talking about women right now.