Thread: First Blowjob: Tips, Please?

Probably forget porn. don't set yourself up for some unrealistic interpratation. You don't need to go to far or fast if you are just starting out. And its normal to gag. Does he know its your first time? Just let him know, and follow his guidance. He knows what he likes, so hopefully he'll communicate to him what's working for him.
Oh, and if he says "i'm about to come. where do you want me to come" don't take it out of your mouth to say you are happy to swallow, or he'll come all over your face. I learnt that.
Do you know if you want to swallow or not? probably a good idea to work that out first. Its not really too bad. If you can get it to the back of your mouth when he comes, it will skip all your taste buds, and it won't be too bad.

Any other questions?
let us know how you go

Yeah we've talked about that...I just don't know about swallowing...eccck. He prefers it...but I'm the one doing it, not him. Lol.

Focus on using your lips and tongue. NO TEETH and you should have no issue with the braces. And speaking personally, deep throating is strictly a porn thing and doesn't translate well into real life. Hand and mouth combos work VERY well!

Lucky guy!

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What he said.

don't forget to fondle the sack

Or do like Louis C.K.'s ex-wife and aim it back into his bellybutton.

We LOOOOOOOVE that.

So the surprise ran a little later than expected, and I actually did it last night. Surprisingly, as I've always considered myself a prude, I LIKED it. I know this is going to sound weird, but it was like some animal instinct took over, and I didn't feel nervous, shy, or anything of those feelings that I was anticipating. I'm going to go into a bit of detail ere. So we went to Lawrence, KS last night because his friend is in a band, and my boyfriend was running the sound. We got out pretty late (2:00, maybe) and he was really tired. He was driving, and from Lawrence to my house, it's about an hour drive. When we got to my house, he was really exhausted so I told him to just sleep on the couch. I laid down with him, and we fell asleep for a few hours, and then we both woke up and started making out and getting worked up. He went down on me (Fucking amazing)and after that we were both tired and started snuggling. I moved my foot and felt he was hard, so I was like, "Need some help with that?" and went down on him. I actually was a little nervous at first. I could feel myself shaking! But as I concentrated more on it, I got more into it, licking the sides, around the tip, and trying to suck deep (And initially failing). I was trying to focus on what he liked the best, based on his reactions to when I did something. Overall, he was pretty happy. He said I scraped a little bit (>.<, damn braces). Anybody ahve any feedback? Anybody ever given a blowjob with braces? (I wish Retro was still here!)

I feel a little dirty after reading that.....

Sounds like it went well, though. I think it's pretty normal to enjoy it. I made the decision that I would only give oral to guys that I really cared about or guys I'm in a relationship with. I think that reserving it for those situations helps me enjoy it, rather than it making me feel dirty. There's a certain vulnerability involved with putting yourself in that situation, so I think it's important to do it only if you feel really comfortable with it. I think it's fine to do it for your boyfriend because you want to do something that he will enjoy, but don't ever get to the point where you're doing it for random guys because you want them to like you. In my opinion, that will make you hate it because it will make it dirty.