Thread: Just Ask Her!

Originally posted by Archer+Nov 22 2004, 11:19 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Archer @ Nov 22 2004, 11:19 PM)</div>

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@Nov 22 2004, 12:42 PM
The only way a person can hurt you is if you allow them to hurt you.* If she is laughing at you with her friends is that really someone you would want to be dating?* At that point when she reveals her true colors to you why should you even care what she thinks about you, she is obviously not a nice person.
It all comes down to how you view yourself.* If you see yourself as they see you then you have a problem.* If you see yourself in a positive light you are not really going to care that they are laughing at you.
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Don&#39;t you think its natural for him to feel a little pain? I mean, its such a reserveal. Sure, she&#39;s a bitch, but does that really change the fact that you had feelings at some point?
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See thats the thing, what feelings are really there? Attraction? How can you have serious feelings for someone without actually being with them?

Most of the time those feelings we have are for the fantasies we have about what the relationship is going to be like once we are in it. If you aren&#39;t going out with a person there is no risk of losing anything.

Good point, DK.

Originally posted by Speed+Nov 22 2004, 10:39 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Speed @ Nov 22 2004, 10:39 PM)</div>

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@Nov 22 2004, 10:12 PM
nice to point out to IW&#39;s what they need to do

I don&#39;t get how guys never get this kind of stuff?

I mean, I know it&#39;s true but it seems weird that it would come as a shock that you might have to approuch girls to get to know them and go out with them.
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In all seriousness, what is your experience with girls? I&#39;m not being sarcastic or anything, just curious. You are quite vocal when it comes to IW, so I&#39;m interested to hear how often you hook up, how often you are rejected, etc.

Spare me the "my dick is in 3 different girls at one time 23 hrs a day, fuckers" stuff too.
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my dick is in 3 different girls at one time 23 hrs a day. fucker.

Seriously, last girl I hooked up with was my friends friend, only made out with her and felt her up, last saturday, but last weekend nothing, Halo 2 has taken all my time.

Last time I was regected was last winter when some girl I fingered decided I was no longer good anymore and instead wanted to hook up with my best friend. Course not a month later she wanted to hook up with me, but she got fat over the year so really, no problem on my end.

I guess girls like having sex with me because I keep it so fucking gully. I dunno, pondering bitches if for the fucking birds kid.

good article!! so true!

wELL tIM, i D&#39;KNOW IF uRE REALLY A FUCKING (shit caps lock...) pimp, but yeah. Anyway...

Yeah... What if she&#39;s wit fcking friends and shita ll the time. Well actually there R tymes when she&#39;s alone N Im 2 scared 2 talk 2 her. Actually, when she&#39;s wit friends, I feel like talkin 2 her sumtimes and it pisses me off cuz I coulda done it right there and then. But then l8er on my courage is gone, and eventually her friends leave 2 go home after Bing picked up 4om a sport. + next week my freinds start football pre training and I&#39;ll B buisy wit my friends(not in that kind of way U perverts! If any1 got any ideas...) and she&#39;ll just stand there.

Well yeah, I&#39;m only scurred 2 talk 2 her cuz I never said a word 2 her in my life mannnn! T&#39;sux!

Damn. I wish I had found this article back in February...but oh well, what&#39;s done is done, and there&#39;s not a thing in the world I can do to change that. But yeah, that was one hell of a great article, DK! It should really help me out.

But, what if the girl you like has already met you, and you&#39;re not complete strangers, b/c it sounds like you are talking about two people who are complete strangers. I guess the situation would be a bit different then, wouldn&#39;t it?

Thanks for the advice!

Originally posted by dragonknight@May 8 2003, 10:13 AM
It is important that during this stage that you maintain eye contact.* If you keep looking away for whatever reason the only thing you will be telling her is that you would rather be somewhere else.

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This is my problem. When i was growing up, it wuz always my dad towering over me yelling for whatever stupid reason, and me looking at my shoes. After 15 years, its a hard habit to break. Becuz of this, it&#39;s my nature to never look someone in the eye for more than 2 seconds, and i have a hard time remembering faces. Also, smiling is rather unnatural also.

Your name&#39;s Tom Gallagher? My sister&#39;s fiancee is named Tommy Gallagher. Do you have any relations in Texas dk?