Thread: confused

alright so that girl that i thought was confusing me by acting werid online, turns out she wasnt and she really does like me which is good! one problem

she also likes another guy that is from UB and use to go to shcool with her and she said she doesnt know who she wants to be with. so i told her to take her time and im sure she will figure it out. is that good advice to give her? what should i do? i dont know really what to do now to get her to only want me. she says she has never had to choice before between 2 guys so she doesnt want ot make the wrong choice if any.... so im just confused now

Step up and take charge of what? A bad situation? A confused girl? A girl who obviosly cant decided who she likes better? A girl who who probably wont be able to give him a 100% if she has feelings for another guy?....

My advice is tell her your arent going to wait around. Dont chase after her. Dont try and make her want you. Move on. The last thing you want to be with is a girl who is confused and torn about her feelings for you.

Dont you want to be with a girl who is 100% she likes you and wants to be with you? I would hope so. She likes another guy. Is that someone you want to wait for? A girl who has feelings for another guy? Even if she *chooses* you....you still know she likes the other guy. Her feelings for him wont magicaly go away if she chooses you becasue she clearly likes this other guy just as much or more. It just seems like a situation i wouldnt even want to get involved with, i personaly wouldnt want to be with a guy who had to *choose* to be with me over some other chick he liked.

Its like when I go to buy candy and I cant decided. I like snickers and I also like 3Mustatears. I cant decided becasue I like both of them so much. So I think I like skickers a bit better, I end up choosing to go with the skickers but that doesnt mean I still dont like and long for a 3muskatears. So even tho the snickers got choosen....it wasnt a great triamph becasue i still like my 3muskatears. Im really not giving my all to the skickers becasue i still like 3muskatears...haha.

.....See what im saying?

Huh, i totaly want a snickers now.