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Reply With QuoteIf she went through a friend to get your number, she obviously likes you. I say you give her a kiss.
Ok, so this is a long story, but to start it off I'm 20 years old--and I've never had a girlfriend, I know sad right...but that's sort of another story. Basically, I'm a nice guy, and wouldn't ever be looking to just "hook-up" short term. It's just not my style; maybe its the romantic side of me. I've always been looking for someone I like, who likes me back (more of a long-term thing). Simple as it may seem, it's never happened.
Anyway, on with the story...
So over summer, I sort of had a reunion with quite a few of my highschool friends. We met up with a girl that I knew from highschool, not knew, but rather saw--I never talked to her, we hung out with different people.
So we all head back to my house, and chilled for a good 3 hours or so. At that point, she asked me, since I told her I was studying as an illustrator, if I could help her paint something for her room. All the guys went downstairs to play Xbox/NBA Street, and I was left alone with that girl. Anyway, I taught her some basics and we spent about 2 hours painting a gecko. After that, everyone ironically came back to my room about the time we finished. We all hung out a bit more, talked a little, etc. Two of my friends stayed over, and everyone else left.
So the next day, I get a call from her (I didn't even give her my number, she called one of my friends and asked). And we hang out. We talk on the balcony for a good 6 straight hours + the two times we met.
At that point in time, I was leaving out of the country to take classes in art. I'd call, or sometimes she'd call, and we'd end up talking for awhile over the phone.
Recently we've been hanging out once a week, on the weekend. We're both pretty busy. It seems like so little time though...and it's sooooo fun hanging out with her :P
I guess that's the context.
I'm so lost, I don't know what to do. I like her a lot, but how can I hint at it without being direct? I wouldn't want to lose her friendship--hanging out with her totally makes my weekend and gives me motivation to get through the week.
There are the little things too...probably not a big deal but, we always hug and give each other a kiss on the cheek--though I'm European so it's not really out of the ordinary for me.
I won't go into any more detail at fear of getting laughed at. Just little things that probably wouldn't mean much to most people, but do to a guy who has a crush and never has had a gf lol.
She's really pretty. In fact, I think the reason she liked me is because I was so calm, and relaxed. But...that's just because at the time I met her, I had no idea I'd ever see her again, so I wasn't really affected much. I'm a chill guy in general--but whenever I'm around a girl I REALLY like, I start to get quieter and more shy, and its starting to happen more and more the more I think about her :/
Any advice or help would be nice--suggestions/ideas.
Thanks,
somedude
If she went through a friend to get your number, she obviously likes you. I say you give her a kiss.
I've been thinking about it (scared as hell though)...I've kissed her on the lips once or twice, when saying hi or when she's leaving, though I think it was more of an accident type of thing...(I'm always aiming for her cheek haha)
I forgot to add some of the things that confuse me:
I think on the second time we hung out alone, before we left, we gave each other a kiss on the cheek. She gave me two, and said I was cute--I have no clue what my reaction was like, I was totally stunned at that point (And..not to mention that was quiete a while ago that it happened).
Another time, I called her, I forgot how we got on the topic, but I think I reasked her question, which was something like "Having any troubles?" She replied:
"I'm lonely, and I don't have a boyfriend"
At the point I'd be thinking she likes me...
But then she'd go on to tell me stories about guys who liked her. She told me two stories, after telling me she likes to flirt a lot. Both the guys went to my highschool, and she'd tell me how she'd flirt with them. Obviously most guys would take it the wrong way--then she told me that she didn't like them, and said she was creeped out by them taking interest.
Which really makes me wonder if she's doing the same with me?
I really don't know...I mean I've never told a girl I like her and I'm so scared of her response. How do I jump over that barrier without risking a friendship?
What the fuck? Those signs are clear and open. Just whip it out, she'll totally go for it.
"heroin - works every time!"
- Rebbie, Australian Prostitute
Ive got to agree, get in there man, Im not sure i see what the problem is. Shes probably cant understand why, even though she is giving you so many signals, you arent taking her up on her offer. Btw, the kiss on the lips wasnt an accident, she wants you to...
pussy, pwn that n00b.
You have at most one more shot at this before you get shuffled into the friends deck.
Make a move for Pete's sake.
Originally Posted by emsgrl
Dude, she so clearly likes you. She's prolly feeling rejected right now because you haven't made a move. Do it.
she's not that kind of a girl, booger!
Mate as soon as i would have found out she went through a friend too get my number i would be bloody in there like the drop of a hat mate. Time is running out for you mate pull your socks up fast or be prepared too lose a girl.
Now i know why you are 20 and don't have a g/f mate, you've probably been in situations like this before but you were too fucking stupid too realise it. Don't fuck up again or there will be no tea and sympathy for you mate.
Every day a more stronger resolve, Every challenge a new gain in confidence. Retribution Will Be Payed In Full.
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Ahh! A compliment? A kiss?
I think you guys may be right...it seems to me we got closer every weekend, but this weekend it felt like nothing really happened--that's why I thought I might post...
Not to mention, I'm so scared she might find someone else...the last girl I liked, and I thought she liked me too (we were kind of like "best friends")--but then she got a job and told me about a "retarded" guy at work--and next thing I know I overhear her telling one of her friends she got a bf. It hurt quiete a bit because I liked her for about a year and thought we were getting closer than ever :P
But yea, I guess I'm going to have to man up or lose it...
"Go, go, go!" "Fire in the hole!" "Circle round back!"
Let me explain the three step 'Counter-Strike' success with women plan.
First off you have to "Go, go, go!" and make some slightly more obvious play (i would recommend a racy spraypaint, or perhaps an impressive headshot...but definitely avoid talking about your 'AWP'..at least at the moment) or she'll leave the server forever, i mean you'll be on her buddies list but from now on you're relegated to a clan-mate, meaning you've missed your opportunity to 'pwn' her, at least in the sense of a good hard frag.
Secondly you need to make a more open and direct expression of your feelings, once you know for a fact that they're reciprocated, and put some "Fire" in her "hole!". I would suggest buying her some roses or perhaps some body armour and a helmet, or maybe a Deagle, everyone's a sucker for the Deagle. Oh and play some Spanish guitar or read poetry or some shit. This should be shortly followed up with effective foreplay (covered in the supplementary plan: Fragging for n00bs).
Third and final point: once things have "Fire"'d up you should reload, check your ammo, health points and armour. Got a flashbang? Maybe wanna use that now or a smoke 'nade to cover you whilst you fumble awkwardly with the condom packet. The term "Circle round back!" is obviously a prejorative term, and unfairly so in this context, as it perhaps implies a certain position of coitus. Let's clear things up; take whatever the hell you can get because if you understand this guide to it's full extent you probably aren't in any position to be fussy. Oh and remember it's better to take your time and fire off the perfect headshot with the Scout than to rush the shot and embarass yourself.
Hopefully this guide has covered the basics, unlike that shitty training mode, and soon you should be 'bunnyhopping' like a pro.
Never has my 2 year obsession (from 13 to 15) with counter-strike been so apt in a real situation.
"Conservatives are not necessarily stupid, but most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill
Lol, that's the most hillarious thing I've read in awhile--Finally someone speaking my language(Damn...who knew a FPS could give such good advice on women lol?)!!! Kidding...somewhat anyway :P
If you fuck her in full body armour and a helmet and provide photographic/video evidence i will send you a fiver.
"Conservatives are not necessarily stupid, but most stupid people are conservatives." - John Stuart Mill
Dude, you need to make a serious move, and fast. If you don't, she is going to give up and you are going to be left with nothing to show for your "friendship."
Trust me, I've been there more times than I'd like to admit, and its not easy to deal with. DO IT!!!
He speaketh the truth.Dude, you need to make a serious move, and fast. If you don't, she is going to give up and you are going to be left with nothing to show for your "friendship."
Trust me, I've been there more times than I'd like to admit, and its not easy to deal with. DO IT!!!
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Tequesian
savmotronPeople do what they do. I mitigate their hazard to me and move on.
stuff is just stuff. your emotional health is much more important. holding raging anger in is more harmful than your faggot-assed tv that probably deserves to get its ass beat anyway.
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