Thread: Girl Problem

hmm hard to say, hard to say....

when i first read , "if I never asked her out, she would be going out with him.", i thought that she was a total bitch who didn't really care about you.

However, at the same time, while her perspective at the moment may be a little skewed, the fact that she decided to not hang out with him because she realized you weren't ok with it is a good sign.

You just gotta think of how she is going out with you when she could be going out with him, and at the end of the day you're the one she kisses good night. If he is her friend, you wont be able to cut him out of her life. If she loves you, and you love her, you should trust her to do whats right.

Well, watch yourself, because acting jealous all the time will be a sure-fire way to do that.

I dunno, personally if my boyfriend didn't want me hanging out with a friend, I would be a little pissed. But I think you should explain everything calmly, and tell her that you do trust her.
Just remember there is cute jealous, then there is Othello.

How old are you mate like 14??. That doesn't sound too promising when your mrs said oh i'm only with you because you beat the other bloke too the pump. I think this relationship is doomed before it even started, not like it was going anywhere anyway.

Well, if they are becoming better friends, then let them be friends. There is nothing you can do about it.

Yeah and don't be a jealous fuck about it either or otherwise she is gonna resent that matey.

You guys don't get it, I didn't beat him to the finish line.
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Here's the deal, bud.

If you honestly believe this, you wouldn't be acting like you are now. Jealousy comes from insecurity, and your insecurity (while pretty valid as your nutty girlfriend told you about her former feelings for this guy), you're going to have to man up and trust her. This is one of the many, many times your trust will be challenged and it seems to me like you don't need to worry.

After all, there are two possibilities here:
1) She doesn't have feelings for him.
Result: Her hanging out with Pussy Winkleton is a moot point.

2) She does leave you for him.
Result: She was a dumb twat anyways.

I always hated those "I love you but let's hang out as friends" dudes because they're pussies. They can't just deal with the fact that there are other girls and they attach themselves emotionally. Women don't respect that. That's why they're friends.

Simply put: because dude is a pussy, she's not dating him. For some reason she thinks you're not, so I wouldn't say a word to her about it. You'll end up looking more like that douchebag than a man. Keep your mouth shut and until she gives you a reason not to trust her, have faith.

Good luck, either way.