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    There's this girl in my class that I've started to like. Anyways, during the last day of class she asks me if i could send her the notes from the lecture and she gave me her msn. I've only spoken to her once the entire semester, she seemed kind of shy. I know there's nothing to read into, since I was the only one with a laptop who could send her the notes as quickly as possible.

    Anyways, we started talking on msn and she seemed a lot more open and it was fun talking to her. I want to get to know her more and possibly go out on a date with her, but I don't know how to do this without it being weird. I don't know if she's seeing anyone, and I won't be seeing her at all because of the upcoming xmas break. We'll have a lecture together in january, but thats together with 500 ppl and chances are we'll be sitting separately with our own friends. So yeah, that's my situation. How do I find out if she's interested? I've thought about asking her friend (who i added on msn at the same time) if she has a boyfriend, but would it be better if I just asked her myself? If so, how do I ask?

    I guess the good thing about this is if this thing goes wrong, it won't end up that badly because I'm not that close to her anyway and won't be seeing her much. But I do want to see where this goes.

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    well, if it were me i would have asked you for the notes because I liked you. somewhat or was interested. just do it. you dont have anythign to lose. if she talked to you on msn abotu things other than school, definately.

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    Couldn't you casually bring it up on msn? Be like, "so you have any plans with your boyfriend for the break?" or "do you have a boyfriend". Just something casual, or you could ask her friend too. However, you do run a risk with that. She will either cover for her friend and say she is not interested in you, or she will go running to her friend and say that you have a crush on her.

    I would just ask her out. Sure, things may be weird after, but it is better to take the chance then not know. If she has a boyfriend, she will say something when you ask her out.
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    I&#39;m not quite sure how I should ask. I know it&#39;s probably not the best thing to ask her on msn, but I won&#39;t be seeing her again til after the holidays, which is a long time to wait. >.<

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    Who gives a fuck if she has a boyfriend or not, just ask. The less importance you place on it, the less it&#39;ll suck if she says no.

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    Ask her out. She&#39;s interested.
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    What about asking for her phone number over msn?
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    If anything mate i think it would be eaiser too ask her on msn because there is no confrontation involved just relax and ask her. The worst thing she can say is yeah i have a b/f or no i&#39;m not interested. But yeah get moving post haste matey because you don&#39;t want too be waiting all that time just too ask her one measly question so what are you waiting for do it for TEAM s-b.
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    Hey, how&#39;d you do on that test? (Heres where she&#39;ll blab her girlbrain off... girls like talking about themselves)

    "Oh yea? Good for you, I did alright I suppose." (More girl blabbering)

    Would you like to go do XYZ before we take off for xmas break?


    If you get a date, leave her hungry. Plant the seed so she thinks of you over the break. Dont be too available to talk over the break. Always be the one who finishes conversations, etc.
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