Thread: Can anyone explain why a guy would do this??

Originally Posted by Fruity

a guy that can't give you a permanent phone number, is usually cheating on someone else.

Actually he doesnt have the money to keep HIS phone on, hence the random #'s. And i head somewhere that a guy calling from someone else's phone is embarrasign to him, but if they do it anyone that means they like you. And that time he called me from his lil sister's phone....

Originally Posted by Strawberry_Kisses

I second this quote.

From the sound of the story, it sounds like he is a player. He is playing with your head by pretending to be emotionally invested or whatever you want to call it by talking about stuff that would not be normal given your very limited relationship with him.

It sounds like what everyone else has already said anyways, that if you pursued anything with this guy, it would be not good for you. He doesn't seem to have it all together.

I would say that even if you are even a little bit interested in him to just forget about it. If he really was interested enough or he wasnt keeping you as a back up for something or you are the other woman or whatever hes doing, something would have happened between the two of you already.... its been five months already if I recall correctly.

The different phone numbers scenario should have already queued the warning sign alarm... I think there are better fish out there for you. I hope it works out well for you in the end.

Thank you for that honest answer. But the thing is, nothing coudlve happened between us because the first 3 months i met him he was still dating his baby mama.!!!!! And he wasn't going to cheat on her. But he knew she was cheating on HIM, so he went ahead and talked to me cuz he knew they were going downhill. And then the 4th month, THATS when she cheated on him.! So the 5th month was just about him establishing a real relationship w/ me. (like taking em out, getting to know me better ect..)...

Do you get it???

Originally Posted by The Viking

Well, maybe I just have that effect on women.

But seriously, this guy sucks, and I do not in any way advocate seeing him. I was just sick of people coming on here to whine about how they've wasted weeks of their life with something a five minute call would have solved.

Hello??...did you miss the part where I said he doesnt have a phone? no cuz u were distracted by Aimee's response.....so what the hell am i supposed to call???..

Right now i dont even care about this boy anymore i AM going to move on and just continue to stay single till the RIGHT guys comes my way.

Originally Posted by Rhazberri

Thank you for that honest answer. But the thing is, nothing coudlve happened between us because the first 3 months i met him he was still dating his baby mama.!!!!! And he wasn't going to cheat on her. But he knew she was cheating on HIM, so he went ahead and talked to me cuz he knew they were going downhill. And then the 4th month, THATS when she cheated on him.! So the 5th month was just about him establishing a real relationship w/ me. (like taking em out, getting to know me better ect..)...

Do you get it???

Oh I got it, it just seems like you are going to do what you want anyway regardless of what anyone tells you.

Good luck.

Originally Posted by Aimee

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Lol! !!

Originally Posted by Bebesit4free

Whoa Aimee. That was spot on. Exactly what I was thinking. He seems like a douche. Not even giving you his real number with some lame excuse that his phone is "Broken"? Move on. He's not worth your time or effort. I bet he doesn't even think about the way he's affecting you. Don't waste your emotions.

When did I mention he didn't give me his real number? ?????????? Right, I didn't. He did giveme his real # when he got his new phone and we texted all damn night then he broke it. And told me @ wrk. But I dntt see why hed lie cuz it aint like I was calling his phone non stop. And he clled me from his lil sisters phone why would he embarrase himself like that if he wasn't telling the truth? u right tho I dnt think he cares about my feelings

Originally Posted by Fruity

Where did you here that? is that something he told you?

And he can't afford to keep his phone on? another plus!
But which is it? is it broken, or he can't afford it? Or has he got two stories in case you stop believing one?

Not two different stories just two different phones the first months he said he couldn't afford it but when he got it on he called me from it. Then as I got to kno him more he couldnt keep it on. And when he got his new one he texted me AND called me to make sure I got home safe ect and we talked for a loooooong time. Then like days later when I saw him @ wrk he told me it broke.

And I got that he may like me if he calls from another phone from someone, not him though.

Originally Posted by Zuggie

I hope he impregnates you, especially if you ever even had a thought this guy was serious at all..

That's so mean. ...I kno I've been bitchy on this thread but I dntt mean it tho...can u plz answer my question ?