get muscles, get tattoos, wear fancy clothing, get an iphone, learn how to have sex with people, learn what you do like and dont like in a girl, learn to see red flags, learn to see the good, learn to keep a girl interested long term, learn what its like to be blissfully in love, learn how it feels to be cheated on and have your heart broken, and much more, now you dont have to do everything here listed above, but youre missing something besides your intellectualism and your intelligence. its called life, if you cant experience life, build character, get shitted on pick your self up and get back up and keep trying, youll always be a nobody. wanna start somewhere? start with saying hi to random people, start taking risks, dont be afraid of being rejected, learn as you go. get ready for the rest of your life