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01-30-2010, 03:44 PM
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| SB Member | Boy advice...just read?... So there was this boy typically story he liked me I gave him a chance I liked him we felt the same way but someone ruined and told him I was talking shit about him I told him I wasn't and ever since he has been giving me hot and cold attitude like ignoring me one day then talkig on msn later on or just looking at me during lunch so I came up with a plan to get him to want me I'm playing games making it seem like I have moved on but I'm still giving him signals and complimenting him I'm trying to make him go crazy sounds evil but when yu want something u fight so to make it seem like I moved on I put ily Andrew in my msn name (I don't even know a andrew) then I started talking to him we talked a bit an then he was like don't talk to me and I was like why and he was like cause yu have Andrew and I was like does that bother yu* and he was like ?no then we just started talking bout other stuff So here are my questions do I hve a chance at getting him back? how do I do it? Do u think he was Bothered/jelous by the ily Andrew thing. Oh an we were going out at a point and I started talking to the guy |
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01-30-2010, 04:03 PM
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| Special Member  | Yes, tragically, you do have a chance of getting him back. And even more tragically, what you're doing will probably work. Countless girls have pretended they've got other guys interested in them in order to hook one particular guy, and it does work. Works the other way round too. People here will tell you that by playing games you are splitting hell wide open, that you are probably a whore, that you need psychiatric help, or that everyone you know will eventually hate you, but don't listen to them. What you're doing will probably work. |
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01-30-2010, 09:54 PM
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| Sunshine  Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Sunny Florida
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| LOL... nah, actually if you are talking about me on this I don't have a big problem with this technique even if I am not fond of the subterfuge.  But I will take the opportunity to point out that her budding relationship was squelched because of someone else's lack of integrity. To the original poster: I tend to prefer the honest approach myself. I know it's hard and I don't know if I'd have been able to do it at your age, but it doesn't mean I won't encourage you to do it. Granted you risk further alienating him. But the choice is yours. If he does get back with you, do try to be honest for the remainder of your relationship. Headgames suck.
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01-31-2010, 02:28 PM
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| SB Master  Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tacoma
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 | ha ha, you need to stop worrying so much and making stuff up... A guy does not care what his friends say when it comes to girls.. your making more work for yourself then you need to just push up against him and see instead of being shy and doubting your ablity to attract his attention.
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01-31-2010, 04:52 PM
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| SB Master Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tacoma
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| heeh okay tri the next time your buddy is makingout with some random girl go up to him and tell him hes making a mistake and see what he tells you to do.
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02-01-2010, 03:35 AM
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| SB Master Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tacoma
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| heeh maybe we do it different where im from but when you go to a club we pick girls up on the dance floor or they pick you up if you know how to dance and normally it isnt with a group of friends maybe a wingman and most of the time they usually dipout if the other chick is a fatty. we dont stop dancing and go ask friends if shes off limits
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02-01-2010, 11:58 PM
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| SB Master Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tacoma
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| haha whatever dude.
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02-03-2010, 02:17 PM
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| SB Master  Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Arizona
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 | Why cant guys see thru this girl-game crap? It's going to work and it's pathetic.
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02-04-2010, 09:35 PM
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| SB Master Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: tacoma
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| cause its in our nature to fight over a mate. its kinda funny tho cause the guys that fight over mates are usually the ones that do not settle for being with one girl so it pretty much will comeback around sooner or later and end up that the guy leaves the girl for another conquest.
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02-17-2010, 11:17 PM
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| crazypaco  Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Colorado
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| just do what ur doin for awhile, if it doesnt work then act all sad like u broke up with "andrew" and if he cares about you he will try n comfort you, thats when you make your move
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