Thread: Boy advice...just read?...

Yes, tragically, you do have a chance of getting him back.

And even more tragically, what you're doing will probably work. Countless girls have pretended they've got other guys interested in them in order to hook one particular guy, and it does work. Works the other way round too.

People here will tell you that by playing games you are splitting hell wide open, that you are probably a whore, that you need psychiatric help, or that everyone you know will eventually hate you, but don't listen to them.

What you're doing will probably work.

LOL... nah, actually if you are talking about me on this I don't have a big problem with this technique even if I am not fond of the subterfuge. But I will take the opportunity to point out that her budding relationship was squelched because of someone else's lack of integrity.

To the original poster:

I tend to prefer the honest approach myself. I know it's hard and I don't know if I'd have been able to do it at your age, but it doesn't mean I won't encourage you to do it. Granted you risk further alienating him. But the choice is yours.

If he does get back with you, do try to be honest for the remainder of your relationship. Headgames suck.

ha ha, you need to stop worrying so much and making stuff up... A guy does not care what his friends say when it comes to girls.. your making more work for yourself then you need to just push up against him and see instead of being shy and doubting your ablity to attract his attention.

Originally Posted by Gutter

A guy does not care what his friends say when it comes to girls..

Total, utter lie.

heeh okay tri the next time your buddy is makingout with some random girl go up to him and tell him hes making a mistake and see what he tells you to do.

That's ridiculous, if the girl's already been established as a no-go area by a group of friends, they won't go for her. Same works with girls, it's standard pack mentality.

heeh maybe we do it different where im from but when you go to a club we pick girls up on the dance floor or they pick you up if you know how to dance and normally it isnt with a group of friends maybe a wingman and most of the time they usually dipout if the other chick is a fatty. we dont stop dancing and go ask friends if shes off limits

We aren't talking about dancefloors.

Well, maybe you are, but if you could do so away from a topic that's got nothing to do with dancefloors, that'd be grand.

haha whatever dude.

Why cant guys see thru this girl-game crap?
It's going to work and it's pathetic.

cause its in our nature to fight over a mate. its kinda funny tho cause the guys that fight over mates are usually the ones that do not settle for being with one girl so it pretty much will comeback around sooner or later and end up that the guy leaves the girl for another conquest.

just do what ur doin for awhile, if it doesnt work then act all sad like u broke up with "andrew" and if he cares about you he will try n comfort you, thats when you make your move

Originally Posted by Love.is.a.battlefield.

So there was this boy typically story
he liked me
I gave him a chance
I liked him
we felt the same way
but someone ruined and told him I was talking shit about him
I told him I wasn't and ever since he has been giving me hot and cold attitude
like ignoring me one day then talkig on msn later on
or just looking at me during lunch

so I came up with a plan to get him to want me
I'm playing games
making it seem like I have moved on
but I'm still giving him signals and complimenting him
I'm trying to make him go crazy
sounds evil but when yu want something u fight

so to make it seem like I moved on I put ily Andrew in my msn name (I don't even know a andrew)
then I started talking to him
we talked a bit an then he was like
don't talk to me
and I was like why
and he was like cause yu have Andrew
and I was like does that bother yu*
and he was like ?no
then we just started talking bout other stuff


So here are my questions
do I hve a chance at getting him back?
how do I do it?
Do u think he was Bothered/jelous by the ily Andrew thing.

Oh an we were going out at a point
and I started talking to the guy

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