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  1. 02-23-2010 04:42 PM #1
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    Dear agony aunt.
    I am only 15, which might affect your advice, hey i might not be allowed on this website, but i have never been so confused.
    So, i'm stuck. Me and this guy are close, not mega best friend close, but i've known him for like 5 years, so were are pretty close. I'll try to put all the info that might affect your advice on this, so i might ramble . So, since christmas, we've got closer, and i dont know how he feels about me, sometimes it seams like he likes me back, because he is really flirtashious, and other times he completely ignores me because he is with his "OTHER" mates. We hang out in different circles, but we do share a friend, and hey they arent that close, but me and her certainly are.
    So, i heard a couple of things off her when i was having a moan about him, but maybe she was exagerating you know? Its kinda crap!
    so i heard that when he's drunk, he talks about me. Last year he was gonna ask me to be his girlfriend, but he didnt because he didnt think i liked him back. And in a lesson the other day, he said that he was biding his time before he asked me out.
    The thing is, when i hinted that i knew to him, he said that he thought we were really close, but we were JUST MATES.
    He does know i used to like him a while ago, and he used to take the piss, but then again we went out for 3 months 4 years ago.

    I know i'm going on, but hey. He has cystic fibrosis, which can kill someone at as young as 16, he is 16 in like a month and i am so worried.
    I also know he used to have a crush on his best mate, and may have a crush on this girl called becki. I just have no idea what to do.

    I THINK I LOVE HIM.
    Believe me, i am not the kind of person to ask for advice, i give advice.
    I just need someone to tell me what to do.

    I'm kinda scared
    Thank you.
    CONFUSED101
    xoxoxoxoxox
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  2. 02-24-2010 12:30 AM #2
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    Do you really want to be with someone who chooses to ignore you when out with your other mates?

    But if you do, just tell him straight up that you like him, and then he can't use that "i'm not sure she likes me" excuse again. Then he has to tell you how he feels. maybe he does only think you are a friend, but he talks up the relationship with you to impress his friends. Boys do some weird things.
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  3. 02-24-2010 02:25 AM #3
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    What is it you want from this fella? Do you want exclusive rights to his attention? A good and true friend is a rare commodity. With a friend you can be yourself and there are no tangles and complications that often accompany dating and going steady. I would work more on being his friend and less on the complicated gossipy stuff. Invite him home for a dinner with the family, do homework together and see if you really have things in common. I am sure if there is more than frienship it will surface. Listening to what others have to say can be disheartening even sad. In all aspects of life honesty and sincerity rule.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Narrowrule View Post
    What is it you want from this fella? Do you want exclusive rights to his attention? A good and true friend is a rare commodity. With a friend you can be yourself and there are no tangles and complications that often accompany dating and going steady.

    This.
    If you dont care about a friendship, then by all means, push and find out where it'll go.
    Just keep in mind saying how you feel will ruin the friendship if he doesnt feel the same.
    If you do you value the friendship however, just stay friends.
    It's not worth losing a friend over since, in all probablity, it most likley wont work out.
    Plus, if it's meant to be, it will be nearly impossible to just stay friends anyway.
    You'll both want more, and it'll come out eventually.
    "Shit happens. Character is how you react to it."
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    hmm the love word kinda short kills alot of your choices if you accually do love him. you already know what you have to do if your having a hard time figuring out if you accually love him give it more time.. and think about it over a period of time yeah hes got a bad deal and he might not be around forever but no one is promise tomorrow and I learned that alot from people on here that when you plan for the future it always changes so your best off going with your gut and just learn from your mistakes.

    so you can really do 2 things wait and see how you really feel or just go with your gut feeling.
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