Hi, I'm in a relationship with a great guy and I'm really happy about everything except it seems I cannot express anything to him. I usually feel very nervous when i have to express myself but being in love makes it even worse. Besides we are from different origins and I don't speak my native language with him so the words do not come easily at all. I'd like to do something really special for my boyfriend, any ideas?
Last edited by sarahshasu; 03-30-2010 at 04:44 PM.
You could try writing him a little letter saying how you feel. =] That also gives you time to find the right words, and it's really sweet.
Giving him your time is nice, too. Make him a special dinner, or make something else for him if you're creative.
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i like giving hand massages. you don't think too much about it, but your hands can become really tensed up from repetitive motions. and it's not as sexual as other massages and not as common.
so i'd get some decent lotion and give him a hand massage. if you don't know how to do it, just try different ways of squeezing your own hands until you get an idea of what feels good.
i guess this isn't really good forum advice cuz the more i think about it, the more it seems like one of those things you'd have to learn by doing, in person.
'Cause I'm that fool that broke the key- I'm unlockable so don't check me- I got weight on my shoulders and things on my mind- The sky is falling and I'm falling behind... No shame in my game just par for the path- I try to hone my craft because at hand's the task- But I find I'm not playing with a full deck- I'm up to my neck like Toulouse Lautrec
I don't think I would worry too much about it...the words will come out when they come out, and until they do, you're probably not ready for them to come out anyway.
"You just can't go wrong if you follow your heart and end with a song"
Simple and sincere to speak from the heart. You have left foot prints on my heart, when I close my eyes it is your face I see, on a cloudy day you are my sunshine. You could pick a song that relates to your feelings and have him listen to it, telling him if you could sing, this is the song you would sing for him. Touch his face and tell him ....you make me smile......you may me happy.....
Or, speak to him in your language how you feel. oooooh I would find that soooo romantic!!
Only do what your heart tells you.
~ by Princess Diana
best way to write a letter from hand not in an email, express ur love and emotions, then plan a date on a beach
I'm not the expressive type of person either. My best advice is just act naturally and yes speak from the heart. That way you will understand each other more.
Remember that some people recognize or show love in different ways one of this is people show there love by kissing and touching..
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