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Reply With QuoteWell, I think that guys always see them as exciting and adventurous that's why they seem to be interested in bad girls but not as a lifetime partner. They look for a nice girl when they are ready to settle down.
I have no idea why anybody should go for the "bad" type. I like sweet people. Markus is very sweet, very serious with me - and that's the way I like it. Can't imagine it should be any different for guys.
In fact, I've never gotten the girls who go for the bad boys. It's just masochistic.
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Well, I think that guys always see them as exciting and adventurous that's why they seem to be interested in bad girls but not as a lifetime partner. They look for a nice girl when they are ready to settle down.
The benefits of bad girls are mostly short-term and for any, and for the good girl is mostly long-term.
The problem when you try to pigeon hole people into "good girl/guy" and "bad girl/guy" is that people have SO MANY facets to their personality that they are never one thing.
But to answer some of your questions, guys do care about "bad girls" and "good girls". *Most* men have fragile egos and need to think that you only turn into a dirty girl for them. They can't handle the competition from other men. So they put women into several catagories. "Bad girls" being the girls they like to sleep with, basically behaving just like these "bad girls"! But condemning them for it at the same time by not considering them for relationships. And "good girls" that are suppose to act like the epitome of non-sexual desire in public but turn into super freaks in the bedroom. Which is completely unrealistic becaues no girl that is a little kinky in the bedroom is that way without some experience. They shoot themselves in the foot for not looking at the girl as a person but more of a thing that suppose to meet their unrealistic ideals due to their own masculine insecurities. Meanwhile, they think they can run around treating girls with little respect using them for sex but they consider themselves ironically "good men". It's a joke on them because they judge women for behavior they do themselves and think they are better then these women.
I personally was never into "bad" boys. I do however find a big difference between "nice guys" and a truly "good man". Every girl wants a "good man".
I agree with differentiating between 'nice' and 'good'. I knew a heap of nice guys, but they weren't necessarily 'good'. My husbands a bit of a prick, and most people wouldn't put him in the nice category, but i know i can depend on him to do the right thing.
I have a friend who has quite a past I'm sure by most standards she'd be put in the 'bad girl' category. She slept with a few people when she was younger But she is a good person. Labels are dumb
True beauty is an exchange, not an observation. - Lucid Rog
Agree Fruity. I know men that describe themselves as "nice guys" but then talk about women and call them sluts and whores. Nice guy? :/ huh?
Yeah that depends on a girl as well as a guy. But sometimes opposites attract to each other.
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