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Reply With QuoteHypothetically... if he really did lose interest and didnt want to see you anymore, in what manner would he have to say it in order for you to believe him?
Ok, so I met this guy at a party and we fooled around the first night and then started to see each other 1-3 times a week afterwards for about a month.
He at first told me that he was not looking for anything serious but that he wasn’t a player type and was only interested in having a casual relationship with just me (this is true, please don’t contest it). Soon after though he asked me out for an actual dinner and movie date and would kiss me on the forehead, etc.. demonstrating bf material.
Then I started to like him which I displayed by (very few) texts like “wish I didn’t have to wait to see you” and he seemed to lose interest and go back to just wanting things to be fwb.
Then a month in we had sex(he didn’t last long-embarrassed).. afterwards he still texted me everyday to say how is your day? What’s up punk? Etc.. but wouldn’t ask to hang out like usual.
Then once I asked him to hang out later that week.. he said he was busy and maybe we could do lunch (hinting at no sexual stuff/just friends). I then asked him what was wrong/why he was avoiding me and he said he was just embarrassed and he didn’t know what else but that it wasn’t my fault. Then he stopped texting me completely, but would respond to my texts.
I eventually just asked “do you always sleep with girls and drop them?” he responded by saying he never expected us to have sex but he couldn’t take that back, etc… “ I then said sorry for saying that I only wanted to say it to get an honest response from you to see if you were just done and he said back “"You're fine. I was embarrassed and that didn't help. let break happen and then after we can try to hang out. If you want to, but let's not get serious again, I'm not trying to play games.”
He’s a gf type of guy and is nice despite what he did. Do you think he’ll ever contact me or is he completely not interested? It’s now been a week back from break and neither of us have tried to contact one another.
Hypothetically... if he really did lose interest and didnt want to see you anymore, in what manner would he have to say it in order for you to believe him?
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simple. he got laid. There isnt much more yu offer him that he is interested in.
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hmm why arnt all girls like you?
Zerosum
yes Trionix i also agreed with you
Russell
S'ok, are you looking for a relationship from this guy? Because you're not going to get it from him. He's mentioned on several occasions (from what you've written) that he just wants to be casual, which means he just wants to fool around with you whenever it's convenient for him, and frankly, my dear, that's what he means.
So if you're cool with sitting by your phone waiting for him, and the up and down emotional rollercoaster that occurs in relationships when one party wants to keep it casual... then knock yourself out.
But if it were me, I'd focus my attention on someone else that wants to be in a relationship.
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"Veronica Vaughn, sooooo hot, want to touch the hinny!" -Billy Madison
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I gotta say, I was like this guy when I started seeing Markus. I kept telling him I don't want a relationship, and was seeing another guy at the same time. Then he made it clear that if I'm seeing others, I won't be seeing him anymore. So I thought about it for five minutes and decided to go with him. Which I haven't regretted. Now it's been three and a half years since that and we're engaged. So these things do evolve sometimes
Perhaps he just got off of a serious relationship and therefore isn't ready for a new one, but doesn't want to give you up completely? That was the case with me. Try telling him that you want it - strings attached, but you can start the relationship slowly, or that you don't want to see him at all. That worked on me.
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I can't figure him out myself. It seems that he is confused himself.
He doesn't want you. Sorry to say it but thats how I think it is. I mean he wanted you once but as a deep relationship thing he doesn't want to get involved. You'll find someone else just look around!
So true! Don't mind him anymore. Find another guy that is worth your time.
Don't just hurry you time will come there's a lot of guys waiting.
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