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Reply With QuoteKeep flirting, let him know you're around and intersted, but don't wait around for him (he didn't). If you end up being single at the same time he'll know you're into him and you can make moves easier.
Hi! Ok, so There's this guy, he's a little less than a year younger than I am, and dead gorgeous!! He's been a really good frien all year, but I only started to notice him in a "More Than Friends" way a few months ago. He obviously liked me at the beginig of the year, but he's not the kind of guy who just sits around waiting, so he's dating this other girl. But then I really liked him, and we started kinda flirting, like taking the metro home from school together and making some ambiguous sugestions about us loving each other. But like I said, he has a girl, and he's been with her for months. The only problem is I just realized that he flirts with evry cute girl alive. But he actually cares about me in a best friend kind of way too, mixed with some flirt, it tastes like LIKING to me... And I REALLY love him, unconditionally and with all my heart... What should I do about this?
Keep flirting, let him know you're around and intersted, but don't wait around for him (he didn't). If you end up being single at the same time he'll know you're into him and you can make moves easier.
Ok, but is that garenteed too work?
Nothing is ever guaranteed to work! If you try something now and declare your 'love' for him then what do you think is going to happen? Drama, that's what. You shouldn't do a thing whilst he's got a girlfriend, no matter how infatuated you are with him. I wouldn't tell him of your 'unconditional love' for him either because that's likely to make any sane man run a mile - especially someone who you would describe as a player. Gosu's right, just chill out and see what happens.
The broad masses of a nation are always more easily corrupted in the deeper strata of their emotional nature than consciously or voluntarily; and thus in the primitive simplicity of their minds they more readily fall victims to the big lie than the small lie, since they themselves often tell small lies in little matters but would be ashamed to resort to large-scale falsehoods. It would never come into their heads to fabricate colossal untruths, and they would not believe that others could have the impudence to distort the truth so infamously. Even though the facts which prove this to be so may be brought clearly to their minds, they will still doubt and waver and will continue to think that there may be some other explanation. For the grossly impudent lie always leaves traces behind it, even after it has been nailed down, a fact which is known to all expert liars in this world and to all who conspire together in the art of lying. These people know only too well how to use falsehood for the basest purposes... Adolf Hitler
Ok, I'll do that and let you know how it turns out!
Just don't sleep with him until you know what he is about. And you don't love him with all your heart! You love the idea of him.
You really should care that he's a player. Chances are, he'll have a routine that he uses on all the girls, that makes each one feel special and liked, when the truth is, he just likes feeling like a ladies' man. You said yourself, that he flirts with every cute girl alive. What makes you think that he REALLY likes you and isn't just flirting with you cuz you're cute? Flirting doesn't even mean that he necessarily likes you in that way. I'm sorry to rain on your parade, but I felt obligated to say this.
if truth were an ocean, would it fit in the pool of a human mind?
- The Corrs
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Then you should know the consequences after all. Make things all clear and know the limitations.
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