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  1. 02-01-2004 12:18 PM #1
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    So yeah I finally told the chick who I liked that I actually liked her and asked her if she felt anything back. It was getting to the point where I should have done so simply because I had already kissed her, hung out with her a lot and she seemed interested in me. In addition she was the one who gave me her phone number at the party (which leads me to believe that she had some slight interest) and was the one to call me back when I didn't call her the second time due to specific reasons. On top of that there was one thing that she told me when I asked her what she thought of me when she met me. She was like I felt bad for a certain friend of hers that liked me... and then she said something else. I guess I had assumed that she might have felt something for me. Well I was completely wrong. The thing is, I'm fine with her saying that she has no interest. Then she starts to rip into me saying why would I even assume that she had any interest(she just broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago). Then she's like you're like all the other guys wanting to get into her pants and she thought I was different. I mean do guys kiss a girl when they have no interest whatsoever? Anyway, can anyone try to give me some insight into why this girl would do all this stuff with no interest whatsoever and then start bashing me cuz I felt something.
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  2. 02-01-2004 12:45 PM #2
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    My God she sounds like a fucking cocktease bitch. Sounds like she used you as some kindof comfort toy she could play with after breaking up with her boyfriend. If you were just friends of course you wouldn't of kissed and if you really were friends she should have made it clear after the kiss that it meant nothing to her. If someone I considered just a friend told me they liked me I would just tell them I don't think of them in that way, saying all that shit to you was unfair as it seems plainly obvious she was giving the wrong vibes. Seeing that she said "you're like all the other guys wanting to get into my pants" shows that she's probably the problem and gives guys the wrong impression. It's not your fault, i'd advice you to swiftly move on and forget about her.
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  3. 02-01-2004 01:02 PM #3
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    Or maybe she was just trying to get her Ex Boyfriend jealous?


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  4. 02-01-2004 01:44 PM #4
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    Yeah... this gal does not sound like good news.

    I'm sorry she had to be such a bitch about it. That's just not nice.

    It is very possible she was using you to make her ex jealous... or she's just a cocktease... or a heart-tease - or whatever you want to call it.

    Please don't let this one gal make you think that all gals are like this.
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  5. 02-01-2004 02:12 PM #5
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    i think maybe she just wanted a friendship. maybe the kiss was helping her to get over her bf...but sounds like she doesn't have a lot of guy friends. and she thought that you wanted to be her friend when most other guys are just attracted to her sexually. did you give her any reasons why you liked her?
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  6. 02-01-2004 02:41 PM #6
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div>
    Anyway, can anyone try to give me some insight into why this girl would do all this stuff with no interest whatsoever and then start bashing me cuz I felt something.[/b]
    It could have been because she was doing stuff with you for VALIDATION. Also, female interest changes wildly with her mood. Male interest does not work that way.

    Who knows why she was bashing you. It is NOT because she thought you were "trying to get into her pants." I think she just said that to hurt you. Do NOT read anything into what she said, because it could mean anything, and don&#39;t blame yourself for this. Find another chick.
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  7. 02-01-2004 02:46 PM #7
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    Sorry sour fox, but I think you&#39;re wrong on the mood swing. I talked to her today and she basically echoed the same thing. She said that I was sweet all week and now the truth was out.... wtf... so what I like her... whoa the truth has come out (sorry little pissed off here). She said that when she told me that she was getting over her boyfriend and this couldn&#39;t be exclusive (after the kiss) this somehow meant that she only wanted to be friends and not doing any dating.\

    She then tells me that the whole giving out numbers thing is because she does it to make friends. That&#39;s bullshit in my mind. If I&#39;m at a party giving out a number it&#39;s because I have some interest in the person romatically and I want to follow up later to see if there is anything concrete. Anyway, that&#39;s all I want to write for now.
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    do you still like this girl after she was so mean to you??? i still think that she misunderstands why you like her. liking somebody is a good thing and most people would be flattered.
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  9. 02-01-2004 03:45 PM #9
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    Originally posted by coif_kid@Feb 1 2004, 10:46 AM
    She then tells me that the whole giving out numbers thing is because she does it to make friends. That&#39;s bullshit in my mind.
    Yup, it is bullshit.
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    It is obvious she is full of shit. It might be something as simple as an ego boost. When you have someone pinning away for you it feels nice.
    Did you want to get into her pants?


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    Honestly, she&#39;s hot and everything, but my goal at no point was to screw her. I&#39;m sure you guys might believe that, but tell that to a girl who&#39;s decided she knows what&#39;s what . Furthermore, I made no such actions or said anything that could have lead her to believe that I was going that way. I mean hell, all I was trying to do was get to know her and she just put off that she was interested so I in turn got more interested.

    I just think it&#39;s funny that she&#39;s really calling me a dick driven jerk, when my friends think that I&#39;m the furthest from that and should be more of one. MAn, things are confusing.
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    Run dude, just book it...Your in highschool right? Don&#39;t sweat the small stuff right now. She sounds like since she was resently launched by BF she needs to appear a comodity, how would she be valuble if someone doesn&#39;t like her? If shes so high and mighty that she can just turn you down that only raises her self esteem that much more...I&#39;ve got $5 that says this girl smokes/diets herself to the point of sickness. Its a shame you got caught between personal problems, but you&#39;ve got to be realistic with this one, she needs to take care of herself before she can care for another else.

    Don&#39;t call her psyco, don&#39;t laugh at her with your friends when she walks by, please don&#39;t make fun of her. Thats the last thing this girl needs, you don&#39;t kick a dog because it used the rug as though it was a tree it doesn&#39;t know the wrong of its ways. You don&#39;t kick someone whos in the dumps because they are angry, because thats all they have.
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