Thread: hook up

true...I'm talking to her right now and we're hitting it off quite well. I'm soooo fuckin' broke that I don't think I can afford a girlfriend right now...too much of a burden, but I'll still give it a shot.

Relax. I'm not worried that much about getting a girlfriend. Ever since I realized I've been thinking about it too much I've become more relaxed about it and feeling happier. I realize having a girlfriend isn't the most important thing in the world.

this is the first time I've talked to her...I think I'm going to talk to her some more online before I ask her to get together some time. No rush.

I told her it was getting late and that I needed to go to bed. However, I said I'd be online tomorrow so we could talk more. I just wish there was more of a physical attraction.

There just isn't very much physical attraction...I can't see this being more than just friends...but who knows.

Damn it...Digity!! You are SO negative! Try going into it with an open mind...you never know what will happen. Don't get caught up in the whole physical attraction thing. You just saw a picture of her over the internet. Some people aren't very photogenic. Maybe you'll feel different when you meet her. Just go and have fun. Don't have any expectations (good or bad).

Dig whether or not there is an attraction there I think you should still try it. First off it will give you that dating experience that you are looking for. You might not be attracted to her or think that because you don't want to be. This will expand your GIRL friend base and if you handle this correctly you could have her in your corner to start meeting her friends at a later date. I think you should go for it. I dated some women I wasn't really attracted to in the beginning just for the sake of dating someone so I could figure some thing out. You gotta start some where right?

Yeah, I'm thinking the same thing DK. If we do go out for a coffee some time it will be good just for the experience. I'll definitely give it a shot and see where it goes.

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Damn it...Digity!! You are SO negative! Try going into it with an open mind...you never know what will happen. Don&#39;t get caught up in the whole physical attraction thing. You just saw a picture of her over the internet. Some people aren&#39;t very photogenic. Maybe you&#39;ll feel different when you meet her. Just go and have fun. Don&#39;t have any expectations (good or bad).[/b]

Why? Physical attraction is pretty important to me (probably most important thing). After I saw her picture I wanted to tell my friend I wasn&#39;t interested, but I was worried that he might of told the girl about me beforehand...in that case, she would have felt rejected if I said I didn&#39;t want to talk to her. There is just hardly any physical attraction.

I find that after talking to someone for a while and getting to know them, you stop seeing what they look like and begin to see they&#39;re personality, whether that is good or bad. It&#39;s a great feeling of intimacy when you can feel for someone and think they&#39;re attractive just from knowing what kind of person they are. It&#39;s happened to me before.

What does she look like?

I like very "petite" girls...she&#39;s a tad overweight. My friends know I like girls with piercings and tattoos...which she has, but the thing is...I think that was a phase I was going through...and I&#39;m not really into that look anymore.

Come on... I know yu got a pic, lets SEE the pig.