Thread: Was it me

Its silly to place stock in talking about marriage and kids when yu are 16 when more often then not the relationship is doomed as a rule.

Yeah...But I still can't seem to think if it was something I did...Or if it was him....and He is being an ass fo not telling me...

Originally posted by Dpuck@Jun 21 2004, 04:35 PM
Its silly to place stock in talking about marriage and kids when yu are 16 when more often then not the relationship is doomed as a rule.

Yup. There should be a law against using the word "love" for people under 25.

he was an ass, she set herself up for it all.

well that just sucks
but i think i have some advice, dont go out with guys that wanna make out first date or move that fast
its kinda like wearing a sign sayin : I WANT SOME PUSSY
like my friend went out with this guy that asked her out before even talking to her and i was like "u do know he just wants some pussy right?" and she was like no he doesn't, he's a nice guy. pretty much had the same ending


on a lighter note, whassup, we're both fairly new
YEAYA

Originally posted by jaredthekid@Jun 21 2004, 09:45 PM
well that just sucks
but i think i have some advice, dont go out with guys that wanna make out first date or move that fast
its kinda like wearing a sign sayin : I WANT SOME PUSSY
like my friend went out with this guy that asked her out before even talking to her and i was like "u do know he just wants some pussy right?" and she was like no he doesn't, he's a nice guy. pretty much had the same ending


on a lighter note, whassup, we're both fairly new
YEAYA

All guys want pussy. Though some guys want other kinds of connection in addition, but not instead of, the pussay.

Was there something wrong with you? No realisitcally you were still in your honneymoon period. At some point that "cloud nine" feeling disappears and you have to start dealing with eachother on a real level. When you are young and that feeling disappears people assume that they have no feelings for the person anymore. However that "cloud nine" feeling isn't permanent by any means.

When you have that feeling, sure you want to marry the person and everything, but that is not reality. I wouldn't put this on all guys cause this happens to people more often than not. It really comes down to inexperience with that emotion people call love.

Is there anything wrong with you? No. The reality of dating is most of them will not work out and they will mostly all end bad, you will have those few friendly break ups but those are rare. If you want my opinion, don't start thinking about marriage until you are out of college and working for a year or so. Once you get out of the fantasy land that school is all about and start dealing with life you will have a better idea of what you really want in a man.

Well I found out what happened...Your right guys he is an ass...And I was stupid for falling for him....But I always seem to go out with the wrong guys...Never the right ones...

I found out that my no good friend Jessica told him that I was cheating on him with a whole bunch of other guys...So that he would dump me and go out with her Best friend NiKKI...Man I hate gurls that mess up other peoples relationships...But I hate him more for beliveing it and not even Confronting me about it...I would have told him that I wasn't cheating on him if he would of just asked me but than agian he might not of belived me because all of his buddies ( that Hate me) wanted him and me to break up...God I was so stupid...

Originally posted by jaredthekid@Jun 21 2004, 11:45 PM
on a lighter note, whassup, we're both fairly new
YEAYA

Hey...

Hindsight is always 20/20. Just try not to let this experience poison you for any future possibilities

Actually ya'll.... to me it looked like he was the one who brought up marriage... and SHE said..

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Well I am sixteen and well he goes one day while we were just talking about our future plans that when we turn 18 that he wanted to marry me and he wanted me to have his kids and everything...I said okay but we shouldn&#39;t that type of comment to each other until we get to that age[/b]

So she wasn&#39;t being totally stupid, in my opinion. He sounds like a jackass though and you, Kymera, should move on. Not only did he believe his friends over you, not only did he not give you opportunity to acknowledge or deny the accusation, he dumped you through someone else... and without obvious reason. Total chickenshit and he didn&#39;t deserve your V card. I hope he was at LEAST a good lay.