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  1. 06-22-2004 04:52 AM #1
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    I'm not saying that im neccessarily ugly or anything but im no pitt know what im saying. it seems like a hot guy can get chicks and be a total ass to them and they bitch about it. i on the other hand do all the gentlemen stuff and i can usually get to be friends with girls but they always do the same thing "ur like my best friend" or "like a brother" which really pisses me off cuz i already have enough friends that are girls, i want a girl friend.

    i don't know, it seems like i get closer to chicks im friends with than their boyfriends but the move never really comes up or seems like a good idea cuz when they tell u that ur like a bro u doesnt exactly get u in the mood to ask them if they want to move it up. lol even when i think about it sounds like southern love.

    her: ur just like a brother
    me: wanna be more than that.
    her: ummm, that would be wierd, especially since i just told u we're like family
    me: southern family *wink*wink*

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  2. 06-22-2004 05:00 AM #2
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    Maybe the chicks are just saying that cause they really do like you. But who knows....I do admit girls confuse guys like that. I have been very close with a few good guy friend's of mine who I had crushes on. And I think I told some of them that they were like family to me, cause I actually really did like them. So, if they do consider you like a bro. Ask them if they like you, if they don't, you always have their friendship there for you to fall back on. And if they do, imagine the possibilites and how much you will love yourself for asking them if they like you or not. Good luck!
    Plus you will never be asking yourself: WHAT IF!!!
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  3. 06-22-2004 05:10 AM #3
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    aight cool thnx.
    i dont have a problem askin, u know but i just didn't know if it would be wierd.

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  4. 06-22-2004 07:06 AM #4
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    Mmmkay...when a girl says that you're like a brother...It means she's not interested. And it's doubtful that she ever will be. You just aren't doin it for her. You'll eventually find someone who does like you.
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  5. 06-22-2004 07:17 AM #5
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    How exactly do you get to know women?

    Do you ask them on dates within, at most, a week of meeting them?

    Do you act like you wanna be their friend?

    Sounds like your whole gameplan is whacked.
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  6. 06-22-2004 10:57 AM #6
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    Yeah dude she just put a cap on any chance you have with her.


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  7. 06-22-2004 11:02 AM #7
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    Stop being such a doormat.
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  8. 06-22-2004 11:06 AM #8
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    Originally posted by jaredthekid@Jun 22 2004, 09:52 AM
    it seems like a hot guy can get chicks and be a total ass to them and they bitch about it. i on the other hand do all the gentlemen stuff and i can usually get to be friends with girls but they always do the same thing "ur like my best friend" or "like a brother" which really pisses me off cuz i already have enough friends that are girls, i want a girl friend.
    If u can see what works why don't u use it? U got the whole wrong approach towards woman dude!!!!!
    Rest When Ur Dead.........
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  9. 06-22-2004 04:21 PM #9
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    what the fuck?
    i know i was a lil high when i wrote that stupid shit but did my title somehow get changed?
    and fuck that shit i wrote, im sobered up now

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  10. 06-22-2004 04:39 PM #10
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  11. 06-22-2004 04:44 PM #11
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    I can sum up, kinda. Stop being so nice. You act like their friend, you&#39;ll only ever BE their friend. Act like a guy who wants more than that, and won&#39;t settle for less. Don&#39;t pussy around and try not to hurt her feelings when it comes to saying what you want. And probably the biggest piece of advice I can give you (and other IW&#39;s haha)... is if you meet a girl and you like her as MORE than a friend... don&#39;t waste time telling her. You shoot yourself in the foot and you lose your window of opportunity.
    "Any God worth 'believing in' would surely prefer an honest agnostic to a calculating hypocrite."
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  12. 06-22-2004 04:50 PM #12
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    Sometimes I think that us guys were given some bad wiring at birth when it comes to dealing with women... most men are used to think that the best way to make a woman like him would be to treat her nice. "Be a nice guy." This only makes sense, right? You be nice, she&#39;ll be nice. Well, it&#39;s KIND of right, only it&#39;s WRONG. Now, I&#39;m not saying that you should treat women badly, but I am saying that you have to do things that are interesting and ATTRACTIVE with her, not just NICE. Have you ever known a guy that has a lot of women as "friends" but none of them want to be with him in a "romantic" way? I believe that there are certain things that make women feel ATTRACTED to men, and there are certain things that make them feel FRIENDSHIP toward men. As I&#39;ve said before, ATTRACTION is something that usually happens without the woman being in control of it. "Attraction isn&#39;t a choice." ... when you see a woman that you&#39;re attracted to, do you say to yourself "Hm, she looks like an intelligent, beautiful woman. I think I&#39;m going to turn on my attraction mechanism and feel attracted to her" ??? Heck no. You feel attracted to her in YOUR GUT. You FEEL the attraction, THEN think about it. And even if you have known someone for awhile, and you begin to feel that attraction after knowing her for a while, it always happens before you "realize" that you&#39;re attracted. Well, the same thing happens inside of women. And they don&#39;t control it either. So don&#39;t follow her around like a puppy.....be a challenge and u will never have any women say to u i only see u as a friend or a brother.
    Rest When Ur Dead.........
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  13. 06-22-2004 04:52 PM #13
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    Uhum....thank you for ur time....
    Rest When Ur Dead.........
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    U fucked urself up man...
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    damn is anyone gonna answer on the title change question?

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