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I know this guy likes me, well obviously since we have been hanging out alot and dating. But each day it's like he has a different attitude. I feel confused and I seem to hestitate with either cuddling with him or something because he acts different when he's with certain people. When it's me and him and my friend and her bf he acts more closer to me but then again when we are with others or sometimes out in public he's alittle distant. It's really confusing and I don't really know what to do because I don't want to do something that's going to screw it up but then again he told me being carefree is the way to be, it seemed like he was hinting something. Any advice?
from grace</span>
-Sprankified: "ideally, sex should be between two people who love eachother. not some kid who's second chair clarinet in your band and you think he's got good lung capacity."
Anyone anyone please?
from grace</span>
-Sprankified: "ideally, sex should be between two people who love eachother. not some kid who's second chair clarinet in your band and you think he's got good lung capacity."
Either:
A. Your idea of close is making out and shit, and he isn't close in public means he doesn't want to make out in front of everyone. If this is the case then good for him, P.D.A. is fucking annoying.
B. He is an asshole and wants to look single to other girls, and by being lovey dovey to you, he will look taken, which he is. If he is doing this, he's a fucking cocksuck and you should bounce on his face.
C. He is like Adam Sandler on Anger Management. If this is the case, it's time to find Jack Nicholsen.
um...sounds like he, has a problem being affecionate in public...he's probley distant cause he's checking out other girls...being carefree in a reationship isn't a good thing...
but you really have to tell use more about him for a good answer to your problem...we don't know the guy at all...it could be that your just smothering him. or it could be he's taking drugs or anything really, what you've said so far isn't very much to help you with...I would just say that, your probley over reaching to things but, thats just what i get from this, and tovlakas is sorta right, in a pricky way...good luck i'll wait for more info for a deeper response.
Zerosum
sounds like this guy is an asshole, screw him.
A man possesses talent;
genius possesses the man.
Why say that Latino, you have no idea what is going on in the situation, so setting a stupid fucking ultimatum like that is just really really bad advice. Ya, just screw him, because its POSSIBLE that from your description that MAY or MAY NOT be accurate, that he could be a jerk. great fucking advice...
Well about him really he's affectionate but he's been cheated on in every relationship so I see how it is hard to trust. Maybe this is why he's distant at times? He doesn't want to get hurt? It's weird, at times he will be cuddling with me and do the random kisses and other times he will sit way across the room farther than me. For once I haven't been pushy I've been goin with the flow but it's just irritating when the flow isn't really flowing...if that makes sense. Does that explain alittle more?
from grace</span>
-Sprankified: "ideally, sex should be between two people who love eachother. not some kid who's second chair clarinet in your band and you think he's got good lung capacity."
that doesn't sound good. It looks like he's just playing you. I wouldn't stick around to find out if I were you.
Buried deep as you can dig inside yourself,
and hidden from the public eye.
Such a stellar monument to loneliness.
Laced with brilliant smiles and shining eyes
and perfect makeup but you're barely scraping by...
Well grr, I'm not sure what to do because i like him and i know he likes me but he just acts weird so i'm taking his advice with being carefree and if i screw it up then i know it wasn't supposed to work out. If he sits away from me I'll sit on him or tackle him, I guess I'll have to be the ballsy one of the two...sounds sad but if that doesn't make it work then I don't know what will.
from grace</span>
-Sprankified: "ideally, sex should be between two people who love eachother. not some kid who's second chair clarinet in your band and you think he's got good lung capacity."
sounds like you really need to talk to him about it if you already havent...he's not really being fair to you with this....but if you want to stay with him and wait till he gets better thats good i would just watch out that hes not cheating on you, cause sometimes when i guy says i want it to be care free he's saying i'll take what you give me till i find what i really want...
I would just talk to him tho if i was you tell him about what is happening to you cause of this, and that he's making you worry more than you should.
Zerosum
I dated a guy like this... over the Summer. This guy would get up immediatly after sex and take a shower... no cuddling with him.
The lack of intimacy could be because he isn't sure if you want it, have you made it clear that it will be reciprocated.
He sounds like he's very confusing, and that you are frustrated... ever thought about talking to him about it?
Communication is key!
"God forbid I exude confidence and enjoy sex." Sarah Michelle Gellar, Cruel Intentions.
"You know, the Nazi's had pieces of flair they made the Jews wear, too..." -Office Space
hmm...after analyzing the situation, i did jump into a conclusion 2 fast. obviously u guys like each other, i think i wuz in a similar situation like this guy once, apparently he is confused, i think that u guys should talk more, get 2 kno each other better, and also dont rush things, u guys take ur time.
A man possesses talent;
genius possesses the man.
So after my friend talked to him last night I guess his thing is he doesn't want to crush my free spirit and he doesn't want to annoy me by calling too much or doing things which is kind of what I am always like, not wanting to annoy him...that's when a pick up line came in my head. I'm worried about annoying you and your worried about annoying me so let's just annoy together...or something along that...so now I'm just blah I guess...grrr boys are so irritating! *shakes fist*
from grace</span>
-Sprankified: "ideally, sex should be between two people who love eachother. not some kid who's second chair clarinet in your band and you think he's got good lung capacity."
I think from what i understand that he may be afraid to get rejected by you and may not know how you feel about him. But like they say talk to him i agree with aphrodite communication is the key.
<span style="font-family:Impact">"microwave a bagel and fuck it."--Skittles
Actually he sounds exactly like how I used to be. He is super paranoid of seeming to be over-protective, and therefore goes in the extreme opposite to make sure you don't think that. In my experience this always led to me getting cheated on... I wish I could give you advice on how to wake the kid up, but I learned the hard way, and that may be the only way to learn
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