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Do you have a girlfriend?

Lethalspork — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 20:41:56 GMT

Please excuse me if I seem a bit ignorant, but I have been in a relationship for 2 years and I have lost some ability to interpret the opposite sex :). Anyway, I work with this attractive girl and while chatting she popped the question "Do you have a girlfriend"? To which I replied "Yeah, I actually live with her". She will also routinely talk about how she is lonely and how some other guy is after her but she is not interested. While I am confident that I would never actually cheat, I do find myself lured to her a bit. I am getting myself in trouble here? If so, how would I send a clear signal that I'm not interested in this girl without hurting here feelings?

She's horrible

boom — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 06:33:50 GMT

What is the best way to tell a person you are crushing on that their spouse is cheating on them? I fear if I tell my crush, my crush will feel like I'm trying to split them up. But I'm not actually. I'm trying to be a friend. I have shown several picture evidence already, and my crush got upset with me and said it is nothing. But I know it is something because all of my friends know my crush's spouse is seeing someone else. I see my crush's spouse every now and then, and one time I witnessed my crush's spouse holding hands with another person. I feel like getting a camera and being a spy because my heartache is not over my crush rejecting me, but my crush's spouse's doings.
I know a lot of you might respond saying, "Just wait, your crush will find out." But they have been dating for several months and I was unaware. Honestly, I feel like if they broke up, it would be easier for me to get over my crush as weird as that sounds. Jealousy? No. I just dislike her very much. I feel like if I get my best friend involved (who dated my crush's spouse) then my crush will never speak to me again. But my best friend was cheated on. And finally..I'm sure a lot of you will say, "Just move on.." I am trying. Been trying for about a month but it isn't helping when I see my crushes spouse goofing around.

2012

KlitEastwood — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 23:05:51 GMT

Many people think that the world will most likely end in the year 2012. They are going off the Mayan calendar which is a system of measurement that has been accurate within seconds for thousands of years. In the year 2012 the Mayan calendar stops completely. There is argument over whether the world will actually end or if it will be an ecological new beginning. Is it just another false panic attack like Y2K?

One-nighter with a best friend. What to do?

Bashful — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 02:58:43 GMT

So the other night was one of my close high school friend's birthdays and a bunch of my friends and I went over to her apartment to party. Around the time when everyone who wasn't spending the night, the birthday girl (who was a bit drunk) was constantly falling over onto to me when I was sitting down and making it clear that she was interested in me that night. Everyone goes to bed, and she texts me to have me go into her room with her. One thing led to another, yada yada. We didn't do it though, I did stuff to her and then, because I'm a bitch when it comes to asserting myself, I never tried to actually have sex with her. I get up in the morning and she has left the bed to shower (she had work) and things went on as normal. I was the last one to leave and things were incredibly awkward (as expected) but the night never came up. Now here's a little background on this girl.

I used to like her about 2 years ago or so and had a definite chance but never capitalized on it. She's been my friend for a while now and has always been an option. You know what I mean? I've only actually chased after her once, but if the moment arises, I wouldn't be opposed to it. Before we went to bed that night, she mentioned that there was this guy she wanted to date which would make me think she wouldn't be so open as to fool around with me. The guy was also mentioned the next morning before people left. That's where I am confused.

What should I do? I mean I like the girl, but she's always been a friend. She's talking about dating this guy, but then she basically offers herself to me (of course being drunk could be part of that). Did the fact that I didn't assert myself and actually have sex with her make her think I'm a bitch? And perhaps my biggest question: how do I make it come up again? I want to talk about it so badly, but it isn't something where I can be like "Hey, how did you like Friday night?" or something along those lines. I'm just so confused.

whats wrong with people in general... and whats not

Gutter — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 06:51:50 GMT

Hakani Missionaries accuse tribes of burying children alive

Can I trust him?

Leogirl1987 — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 23:30:55 GMT

I've been with my bf for about two years total and we have an 8 month old daughter together we broke up a couple months ago but got back together about a week ago we've been intament the whole two years and tomorrow is his sisters 23 birthday party which I was invited to and he informed me today that I must leave at 11 because he has another girl comming but he says I have to leave because she doesn't like me and he doesn't want drama but I don't completely believe me but he has never cheated on me ever nor on anyone else but it took so long to get it out of him and he said she has a bf idk what to do should I trust him cause he's supose to move in with me about 4 months from now help plz what should I do I wanna spy on them

I like him, he likes me! He's a player, but I really don't care!

angelsskate — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 05:37:31 GMT

Hi! Ok, so There's this guy, he's a little less than a year younger than I am, and dead gorgeous!! He's been a really good frien all year, but I only started to notice him in a "More Than Friends" way a few months ago. He obviously liked me at the beginig of the year, but he's not the kind of guy who just sits around waiting, so he's dating this other girl. But then I really liked him, and we started kinda flirting, like taking the metro home from school together and making some ambiguous sugestions about us loving each other. But like I said, he has a girl, and he's been with her for months. The only problem is I just realized that he flirts with evry cute girl alive. But he actually cares about me in a best friend kind of way too, mixed with some flirt, it tastes like LIKING to me... And I REALLY love him, unconditionally and with all my heart... What should I do about this?

What do you like to immediately after a blow job?

Oxytocin — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 22:44:02 GMT

What do you like to DO immediately after a blow job?

So, I guess I've never really thought about it before until I started imagining giving a blow job to this guy I'm lusting after right now. I'm trying to conjure up an ideal scenario for when I give him one... whether it plays out or not, who knows. I just like to think about it anyway. :wub1:

From past relationships, I can remember a few situations dealing with the load after a blow job-
Simply taking the load and swallowing, licking up the shaft
Just letting it squirt out onto himself, haha
A few facials/on different part of my body, maybe rubbing it around a little
Swallowing with his dick still in the mouth, licking clean
Just going to the bathroom and spitting it out

I guess what I'm looking for is the typical guy's ideal AFTER blow job experience. Particularly in the details of dealing with the load and what you do afterwards. If you say roll over and sleep, you suck... haha. I really want him craving more mentally and physically.

The ADD/ADHD Meds

Bloody Carablea — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 22:19:16 GMT

Anyone here on meds for ADD or ADHD? How do they work out for you?

I think I have ADD, it certainly would explain a lot of things. It hasn't been diagnosed yet, but my doctor promised to look into getting me tested.

I struggle A LOT with school. With sitting quietly for 100 minutes straight. With concentrating to reading school books.

I'm in high school for adults, and an average student - my strengths are languages, especially English, and I'm only bad at maths, physics and chemistry. And I've been dreaming about the effect the medication would have on me: with no problems at concentrating, I might become a really good student. I mean, I'm not that dumb, I perform a bit over average in IQ tests - I could finally go back into the life I planned for myself when I was 12.

A lot of people tell me I haven't tried hard enough, but trust me, I have. I remember how I once really tried, and it took me over 7 hours and I still hadn't finished a hundred-page book. And it's not just reading, it's everything! Even writing this very topic is something I need to take breaks from. That's why I loved smoking, it offered such a lovely excuse to take a break. I mean, even when I'm having fun, I need to take breaks cuz I can't concentrate. And it's been like this always. No matter if I'm happy or unhappy, stressed or stress free, I still can't concentrate.

So, I was wondering, what do people here know about ADHD/ADD meds? Do they work, and if yes, how well?

this just keeps bugging me..

penny-lane — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 12:51:04 GMT

me and boyfriend have been together for a few months. during the first month of our relationship we went to a friends gathering and stayed the night we both had a bit to drink and were a bit drunk, anyway we were alone so we just started kissing and the most i've ever done with a guy is kiss and before we went out we had a talk about sex and stuff and i told him i am no where near ready to do that at the moment which he said was totally fine. anyway he kept tryin to do more then just kiss and kept trying to take my clothes off which i really didn't feel comfortable with and i kept saying no, no i really don't want to, please no, not now stuff like that but he just kept trying and was being so pushy he was literally pulling my pants down and i was trying to hold them up and he is a strong guy and i just eventually gave in, i didn't have sex with him, we just did other stuff because eventually i couldn't take it anymore and i freaked out and started crying. so he got off me thank goodness.

anyway after that night i got really upset at him about it and he promised he wouldn't do it again and he didn't know what he was thinking and he'd been drinking but theres no excuses blah blah and so he didn't for a while, but once when we were out he got really really drunk that he vomited on the floor of the pub we were at so i took him back to his place because i was afraid he wouldn't get home safe on his own anyway he starts trying stuff again which i didn't mind because we had started doing that kinda stuff recently but he just got so rough and pretty much tried to have sex with me he hurt me so much i cried and even bled a little. its seems like saying no isn't enough i have to cry for him to stop it. and he says sorry and all that stuff but anyway i've just decided to not be alone with him wen he's drunk, i mean wen he's sober he is pretty much fine and not pushy and stuff and nice.

but it just keeps bugging me and its been a while now since those incidents and i'm still a bit annoyed like i can't get over it and i guess i'm also angry that he ruined my first sexual experience with a guy i mean thats not how i imagined it :wacko: i mean he's my boyfriends, boyfriends shouldn't do that stuff right?

and i think why i freaked out so much is because as a child i was sexually abused and growing up i avoided getting intimate with boys, i mean i went through a stage where i hated being touched i didn't even like it wen my family touched me, and he is my first boyfriend, and my first boyfriend just goes and does that and it just leaves me feeling a little annoyed i guess.

i dunno its just wenever we have a fight, i think i kinda throw this in his face a little which i guess isn't fair on him, coz its done, its in the past and he hasn't acted that way with me since the last time. but i guess i'm just feeling a little like...can i trust this guy???

The boys suck

Bloody Carablea — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 21:41:11 GMT

AUTHOR'S NOTES: So. The boys are being fucking boring, I mean, it's a Friday night and they're sitting and PLAYING PS3. After drinking a couple of pints in a bar. I somehow figured we'd be having fun here by now, and well, they certainly are, but I'm fucking bored. So I'm writing something.

THE BOYS SUCK

The boys suck,
they suck deep and hard,
Not that they give me any enjoyment.

Could've wrestled
Could've played in the mud
Could've had a long convo
Could've trashed the condo
But no, since the boys suck.

Two pints and I didn't think they'd get drunk
Two pints and I'm falling from the drinking high
Two pints, where would you think we'd be now?
Two pints, anywhere but here

I love you both
but you certainly know how to bore a girl.

Virgin Mobile - Give it a rest already

DarkKnight — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 13:24:12 GMT

WTF is it with Virgin Mobile's customer service approach?? They use this peace, love and groovyness tone in their recorded messages and the live agents are even worse. :flowers:

Granted, it's kind of refreshing the first time you hear it and I wouldn't mind so much if I didn't have to call them every other day due to the fact that their site promises one thing and the reality ends up being quite another!

The last flower child actually called me DUDE on the phone, said that my issue 'sounds like a drag' and used the words cool and awesome about 10 times! It's like a fucking Cheech and Chong skit everytime I call!:hammer:

I just want my fucking mobile internet to work the way you say it should. Dude.
:pullhair:

South Korea blocks North Korea's new Twitter account

DarkKnight — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 02:49:03 GMT

The Press Association: South blocks N Korea's Twitter bid

My guess is that children of divorce are probably best equipped to appreciate this depth of hatred and pettiness.

Yikes

Daniel Tosh

DarkKnight — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 02:28:09 GMT

I love this guy. This is the kool aid. Drink it!!

The audience sucked in this one - still funny though!

Bricks vs Washing Machine

DarkKnight — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 02:23:18 GMT

Watching Daniel Tosh's show and saw this one. Funny shit. For that matter, so is Daniel Tosh - one of my favorite comics!