How old is your little bro? Sorry...I really don't get all this 'high school', 'freshman' and 'senior' stuff.I'm guessing about 15? 16?
Well, I'm 16 and most of my mates are 17 or turning 17 this academic year...and most of us are virgins (as in haven't had intercourse), but most of us have been to 'second' or 'third' (mutual masturbation/oral) and pretty much everyone has kissed someone with tongues. But then most of my group are fairly tame in comparison. I mean we 'mess around' with people from time to time, drink and smoke weed, but a few people started doing that about two years ago. Now I think about it, that's pretty weird...
We've all heard about the 'popular'/sporty/attractive/whatever people, who mostly seemed to have lost their virginity by now. Because there've been a couple of pregnancy scares and whatnot. And the year below us (15 and 16) seem to be having an interesting time...drunken parties and orgies, supposedly. Most proper house parties I go to have at least partial nudity, 'first base' if not oral, threesomes and bi-curiousness.
It seems pretty normal to me, at least it's what most people are doing in my school and other schools I have close friends from. Pretty much from the age of 15 or so, a fair few people lose their virginity, but also a lot don't. I'd say that more of my friends are virgins than aren't, but that's probably because the group I hang out with aren't really as wild as some are. So I guess it's pretty much 1/3 to a half of people who've lost their virginity by the age of 17. Maybe more.
The only advice I can give you is just to tell your brother (as cheesey as it is), that the first time he has sex should be special...he's not gonna get another chance at losing his virginity. So if he's 'messing around' within limits, then fine, as long as he's not at risk of getting any STDs...but you might want to just suggest that if he doesn't feel comfortable with something going further or doesn't want his one chance at a first time to be less than a great memory, to stop there for now.
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I'm guessing about 15? 16? 


how careless.


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