Thread: Sex & The Younger Crowd

Sex is definitely taken quite casually amoung high school students, at least i think so. Many dont see oral as "sex" and fail to see the risks involved. The friends with benefits thing is also a big thing, especially with guys..and loads of girls are willing to put out and spread their legs to anyone.

Manda

It makes me angry.

i've noticed this among young people too. My ex had a younger brother, he was 15 and getting up to all sorts of sexual adventures, going to parties with random girls and having sex with whoever would give, one time he told us he had a 3some. I was quite appalled with the whole thing because for me its such a big deal and these kids are able to pull it off so easily without a second though.

That, and it kinda makes me sad when school kids have more sex than i am

my little sis will be going into 8th grade next year. tiny highschool of about 300 kids and supposedly 8th grade is when a lot of girls start losing their virginity. and thanks to small-town gossip, i heard that one of the 8th graders this year slept with two guys over the age of 20....at the same time. now how fucked up is that. i wasn't even seriously thinking about losing my virginity in 8th grade. it seems there's a trend of sluttiness starting at younger and younger ages.

My neighbour said he lost his virginity at 12. at least he tried to, except that the young girl had trouble fitting a penis inside her, so it didn't end so well. it did end up happening the year after, we the same girl, but when i was 12, the thought of having sex hadn't even crossed my mind.

first off, my quote tags are being lame so I have to copy everything. fyi.

I'm 22 btw, so it's not like I'm light years ahead here. maybe it's a locational thing? a clique thing? I don't know. fess up![/b]

Hm, im about the same age and my HS years evolved around friends with benefits deal drasticaly and casual sex. Not just me, im talking my overall high school, neighboring schools. It was a slut fest.

I remeber before i even became a whore stories of freshman girls (i was a freshman at this point and waaaay nieve) but stories of freshman girls having 3somes, 4somes...orgys with girls, guys, whomever. I recall one party, the FIRST party i EVER attetended, some guys paid two girls to go down on eachother, girls were lapping up clit, guy came up behind the girl who was leaning over and cleaning out some girls twat with her ass in the air, the guy slams his cock and started banging the shit of her. And these were freshman girls whom i had gone to middle school with. Sex was absolutly NOTHING to most people in my HS, because my school was such a fuck-fest. You have no idea. It was insane.

In my HS we had a thing called 'Bf' swap, where girls would let their best girl friend fuck their boyfriend casually, and so on and so on. It was weird, you would be walking down the hall and it was "So, i let Jenny BF swap with me this weekend, and i swear Kevin likes her tits more then mine!" Haha. Seriously.

So i dont know. I figured thats how most HS were to be honest. I always figured that age group just had a total lack of regaurd for sex, committed relationships and monogomy.

So what your brother is doing, the friends with benefits deal is probably appealing to him because there is no commitment, no frustration, no being tied down, he gets some head anytime he wants, gets off, gets her off if he is feeling generous and they go to the movies after as friends with no exspectations. So it probably seems normal to him, because he is probably surrounded with this shit, and worse all day long.
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I don't even know what to say about that. I feel like a fucking ostrich with my fucking head planted in the fucking sand.
maybe it was just my high school. maybe I grew up in some fucking fairy tale. I don't know. I don't get it. tho I wouldn't really doubt that there would be shit- a lil tamer than that, I would hope- going on in some people's groups at lhs and here wtfwtfwtf...

well. this is just pathetic. this helps my idealistic complex LOADS. I think I might have to have a talk with him.

To quote myself:

That's absolutely right Max, we've convinced today's children that whoopee cushions, yo-yos, milk caps and even Pokémon just aren't fun enough anymore. What do all kids want to be when they grow up? It doesn't matter, what matters is that they all keep wanting to grow up. Things were tough at the start of the year, the fashion industry went through a tragic dry patch in make-up sales after Rejina went 'Au Naturel', and I remember when all of the departments here received an internal memo, asking us to help out. We thought about it at 'Crawlers', and we reached a simple conclusion: we had to teach the kids how to be consumers, while ensuring our own security for the future. So we invented 'Slutz', a group of go-getting, fashionable and sexy whores for the under-8 female market. 'Slutz' love chatting on their mobile telephone, putting on their make-up and shopping out in the mall, but most importantly, they love to fuck.

Each 'Slut' comes built in with three 'Sex Moves', the more 'Sex Moves' you collect, the the higher your 'Moneypot' rating. Let me put it to you this way, when this country's little girls saw older, prettier girls playing with these little pieces of plastic on TV, I got a phone call from no less than ten make-up companies, six fashion designers and countless toy stores, thanking me. Those are just the short term benefits. Estimates gathered over the past two financial quarters have shown pregnancy in the under 8s to be on the rise, and by the time these girls hit 10, their kids are going to be playing with the newer, more extreme version of 'slutz': 'Rapwhorez'. The cycle continues gentlemen, and we continue to protect our investments.[/b]

It's the media's fault.

Seriously.

Media schmedia....


it has a lot to do with this:

Social-Sexual change.

Back when it kinda went like this: girl starts puberty 11-12 y.o., first period 12-13, marriage 14-15. Time available for screwing around = less than a year to a year and a half.

Fast forward, for whatever reason girl starts pubery 10 or so, first period 10-11, marriage.....24-30?

Time for said girl to be horny, want sex, be driven by hormones, and for screwing around: 10+ years.

There's a biological imperative at work here. When a woman's body is ready for pregnancy, it also desires sex (cause you can't have one without the other).

THEN add in media, lack of at-home parentage and supervision and all the other factors of modern life....and you've got 8th graders getting triple teamed between school's let out and their parents returning home.

yea, speed, cuz the clap is AWESOME!!!! genital warts? ALRIGHT!!!

I had a scare awhile back where I thought I had some sort of std. cuz I'd messed around with a guy while I was on vaca, and it nerved me to no end. WORST fear of my entire life, thinking I was going to have some nasty dirty std for the rest of my life. ended up being an ingrown
after that, never again. never again would I want to have THAT weighing on my mind. is this just NOT on people's minds? OH maybe I should get my bro a picture book with alllll the different closeup photos of warts and brutalized peni.

where are these people's parents? how are these huge orgies even happening?

I feel so out of touch with this. I was still a kid in high school. granted I was no saint and yea I had sex and yea did drugs and all that shit- but I wasn't so... "meh" about the whole thing. I was in a committed relationship.
I guess I just don't get it. unfathomable in my silly brain. I think this might be the first time I've ever thought of my bro in a new 'didn't think he was that fucking stupid' light. my glorious image of him being perfection is now tainted. goddamnit.

I think it's a clique thing. maybe I was in lala land with my friends with real values. we fucking recycled together and painted on canvas after school (OMG!!!). I don't know.