Hahaha, sex always gets better. It will get better with more experience.
Ok so I did it. I did something I never thought I would do with anyone until marriage. I had sex.
My boyfriend and I of almost two years finally decided that we felt we wanted to experience this with each other despite of what we had planned, (to wait). I’m on birthcontroll and we used condoms with spermicidal lube. It was on Winter Formal night (it’s like Prom).
So here’s what happened:
Formal: We were all dressed up, limo, dinner, dance-totally cute
Then:
-we ditched our limo group to go to the beach first-it was wonderful and completely romantic telling each other how much we love each other under the moonlight
-we arrive back at his house (snuck in so his dad wouldn’t know I’m spending the night) and went into his room
-He had candles everywhere with romantic music playing and sparkling apple cider cooling in a little campaign tub. (awww) it was perfect
-We were both pretty nervous but we both knew we were ready so were took off our clothes and he slid into me-missionary position
-my first thought was “cool, no pain” but the second was “hey I can barely feel he’s even in me –boo”
-we didn’t just do the missionary the whole way we wanted to try any position we could think of and in a course of two hours we did: me on top, reverse cowgirl, doggy style, chair sex, various positions on the floor and took turns with him and me, one on top of the other with their legs hanging over the bed.
-Finally we decided to end it on the floor and he came
I got close a few times to orgasm but never did but I guess it wasn’t that much of a surprise considering I’ve never had an orgasm aside from a very precise way of masturbation –sigh![]()
I’m glad we chose to have sex but it felt odd. Sex is always made out to be this amazing thing, a risky thing or at least something that feels pretty darn good. I was expecting to be like “wow! I just had sex.” Or overcome with some sort of emotion but all that really went through my mind was “oh, ok so that’s sex.” The main reason for this I think is, well, I could barely feel his dick inside me to begin with. I know first timers usually get all sorts of pain, but I could barely even feel I was having sex. And it’s now like Richard’s anything close from being small either. He’s about 8 inches and a considerable girth. I guess I might have just been a little too wet but, still it was a little disappointing. Another reason I might not have felt much is the poor thing was having a horrible time trying to stay hard because the condoms were too small. He said they were hurting and even though he could get hard, by the time I was riding him he was pretty soft.
So here’s the thing, will sex get better? Or for some reason am I just cursed to never be able to reach an orgasm with him? Does anyone have any suggestions?![]()
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return...
Hahaha, sex always gets better. It will get better with more experience.
Your boyfriend hasn't had sex in two years and it took him TWO HOURS to come?
Tell me he came a couple of times before the two hours.
I mean, that's just, crazy.
And, I think the first time is always a little dissapointing because it's built up to be a huge thing, and it's just a little strange at first. When you two become comfortable with the whole sex thing, and start having fun with it, then it'll be something special.
"God forbid I exude confidence and enjoy sex." Sarah Michelle Gellar, Cruel Intentions.
"You know, the Nazi's had pieces of flair they made the Jews wear, too..." -Office Space
yeah i think you were concentrating too hard on the thought of "ok i am having sex" instead of just letting the passion lead where it may. i think you were trying too hard with all the positions and everything. save that for later on a little! there needs to be a slower buildup to all the various facets of fucking... not just doing every single position in one night. it will get better i promise!!!!! and sort those condoms out. i remember my first guy i screwed couldnt keep it up the whole time either... it could be a matter of nerves on his part. just keep on truckin
Maybe he masturbates alot..?Your boyfriend hasn't had sex in two years and it took him TWO HOURS to come?
Tell me he came a couple of times before the two hours.
I mean, that's just, crazy.
And, I think the first time is always a little dissapointing because it's built up to be a huge thing, and it's just a little strange at first. When you two become comfortable with the whole sex thing, and start having fun with it, then it'll be something special.
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Yes, a lot... and six times directly before they had sex.
"God forbid I exude confidence and enjoy sex." Sarah Michelle Gellar, Cruel Intentions.
"You know, the Nazi's had pieces of flair they made the Jews wear, too..." -Office Space
Well what do you expect him to do with his 9 inch gorilla penis that caligt didnt even feel?? Virgins feel penii, even normal sized once
2:05 AM [Lothar] kinda like beef stew but they use guinness
2:05 AM [Greaser] and it gets your dick hard?
2:05 AM [Lothar] yeah, it's that good
Maybe she's got a really big vagina.Well what do you expect him to do with his 9 inch gorilla penis that caligt didnt even feel?? Virgins feel penii, even normal sized once
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"heroin - works every time!"
- Rebbie, Australian Prostitute
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Your boyfriend hasn't had sex in two years and it took him TWO HOURS to come?
Tell me he came a couple of times before the two hours.
I mean, that's just, crazy.
And, I think the first time is always a little dissapointing because it's built up to be a huge thing, and it's just a little strange at first. When you two become comfortable with the whole sex thing, and start having fun with it, then it'll be something special.
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Haha -don't worry he's not a freak it's actualy not that baffeling. Yes when we first started he realised he was about .000002 seconds off from comming but stopped because we wanted to fool around longer. He was able to last longer because we kept switching positions before he let himself come. Pretty simple :yes:
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return...
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Your boyfriend hasn't had sex in two years and it took him TWO HOURS to come?
Tell me he came a couple of times before the two hours.
I mean, that's just, crazy.
And, I think the first time is always a little dissapointing because it's built up to be a huge thing, and it's just a little strange at first. When you two become comfortable with the whole sex thing, and start having fun with it, then it'll be something special.
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Haha -don't worry he's not a freak it's actualy not that baffeling. Yes when we first started he realised he was about .000002 seconds off from comming but stopped because we wanted to fool around longer. He was able to last longer because we kept switching positions before he let himself come. Pretty simple :yes:
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ah nice he has good control of it then :] something i can relate to.
ah nice he has good control of it then :] something i can relate to.<div class='quotemain'>
Haha -don't worry he's not a freak it's actualy not that baffeling. Yes when we first started he realised he was about .000002 seconds off from comming but stopped because we wanted to fool around longer. He was able to last longer because we kept switching positions before he let himself come. Pretty simple :yes:
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Yeah, you're a stallion alright.
"heroin - works every time!"
- Rebbie, Australian Prostitute
yup
As for the condom thing: If he's swinging timber he might want to go to a larger size. I had trouble with regular condoms until I switched the "Magnum" brand Trojan makes. And while I suppose it could be an ego boost, be warned: I can never find them in the "Weekender" pack. You always have to buy the big roll of them and then you have to walk across the store trying to be discreet about it while people eyeball you like you're a sex freak.
If you were born after 1990, it's safe to say that Lothar is probably your father.
"heroin - works every time!"
- Rebbie, Australian Prostitute
Lothar knows what he's doing, he gets his penis, his face, and 2 fingers into his balloon, I mean condom ... that bitch comes in like 7.2 secondsIf you were born after 1990, it's safe to say that Lothar is probably your father.
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2:05 AM [Lothar] kinda like beef stew but they use guinness
2:05 AM [Greaser] and it gets your dick hard?
2:05 AM [Lothar] yeah, it's that good
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