Thread: Sex.

Ok, first off: Im male, 19, have only had sex with one partner, but many times.

So, out of the many times Ive had sex, only once could I come in under a half hour, and that went in about 3 minutes (ironically). Every other time I was able to come, it was seriously after hours of sex. Most of time however, I actually faked it... which involves a lot of looking like an idiot and squeezing the PC muscle. I would go really hard until either she had enough and it started hurting or I just seriously didnt have the strength in my muscles to keep it up any longer. At that point, I would lay there for about 5 minutes to regain my stamina, and then go take care of business by myself in the bathroom.

So, I dont know why I cant come. Any ideas?

Another thing: We didnt ever use condoms. Shes on the pill and very very good at keeping on time. We once didnt have sex for a month because she was like 4 hours late one of the days. Shes also only been with virgins and she is my only, so STDs arent in the picture. Condoms come off and I dont know why. Im rather large (honestly, she tells me so and shes had experience) but it keeps coming off. I think it has something to do with me having a lot of extra skin at the base (Im a pretty big person overall).

Whats with that?

Also, As I have stated, I can go for long periods of time, but it always seems like she gets tired (apparently of laying there and breathing hard.. i bet its hard work) about 45 minutes into it. A couple of times shes been ok for like an hour and a half, once we went for 3 hours, but usually its under an hour. Is this normal? I have nobody else to turn to, since I dont get cable.

Thats about it for now, thanks in advance.

Well sometimes I have the same problem, but the only time I don't cum is when I don't change positions. If she gets on top, or we just change up more often, it's never really a problem. I suggest telling her you need to switch or something. Good luck with that.


-jeremy