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    So I went to the races. And I met a boy. And he was a dead ringer of my ex and it was cool. Anyhoo. Decided to go hang out at a bar near the train station so me and my friend could get the last train home and we ended up going back to his for "drinks".

    "Drinks" turned into me not even being in the house for 5 minutes before him giving me a "tour" of his house, leading me into his bedroom and locking the door behind him. (Funniness - he'd put Audioslave on, the band I'd said previously that would be fun to fuck too, hahaaha...)

    So we're getting into what grownups do and I drop the bomb that every chicks drops -

    "I don't do this often...fuck...every chick says that...damn..."
    "Do what?" He says, chuckling.
    "Have one nights stands..."
    "Well, It's only a one night stand if we have sex and I don't call you tomorrow".

    Now I wish I said I'd like him to call me haha. Or something like that. Anyway. After accidently showing his room mate my naked body and fumbling to get dressed he says some positive sounding shit.

    "Ok, stop pacing for a second and lets chat. OK. We have 3 choices. One, you stay here and we have crazy freaky sex all night. Two you go home with your friend. And 3...can I have your number?? (asked..KEENly!!)"

    I say he can have my number and that I'd love to stay but I have to work early and I'm going home with my friend. Who's sitting on the couch downstairs. We do this shit for eachother haha she understands. Anyway. We all chill out on the couches chatting for about an hour waiting for our lift, fuck, this guy lives like 70 minutes away anyway...lots of good chats and he puts his number in my phone...the whole time chatting hes hugging me kissing me all this lovey dovey shit, then me and my friend get picked up.

    SO.

    I message him saying thanks for the great day..night..he messages back saying whos this...and after i stopped screaming THE **** GAVE ME A FAKE NUMBER he messages saying haha gotya sweet dreams babe hope to see you soon...xx, look after yourself..

    Should I be worried he hasn't called. Haha. Lol. No. My question is. Guys. Do you fake being keen for a girl, like, fully act that you are...just to be a ****? Or just coz you can? Would you give her your real number even if you weren't keen?

    I'm a very straightforward person and hate being fucked with. And if I'm not interested in someone or if I am they know about it. I'm just curious I know some guys like to play games and I really don't see the point....oh......

    Syco- "The Empress is the latter leg of this triad, representing the physical body and the material world. From her comes all the pleasure of the senses and the abundance of life in all its forms. She is also the mother archetype, and through her we get a first glimpse of the power of love in the Tarot." I think this is all representative of awesomly large tits, no?
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    eh, he sounds interested to me. guys are dicks to get sex, not just to fuck with our minds (usually). he got sex, there would be no reason for him to pretend to be interested in you now if he isn't. i would assume that he's interested. but play it cool. i mean, are you interested in him? do you want him for more than sex? do you like him? generally, my advice would be not to have a one night stand with someone you actually like. but now it could really go either way.

    in the past, when i've had one night stands, if i don't start the "will we see each other again?" convo and he doesn't bring it up, i assume that nothing else is going to happen. if he says something like "we have three choices etc etc", i would assume that he's interested.

    but yeah. guys usually only play games to get sex. protect yourself, obviously, and don't assume he's completely innocent straight away, but give him the benefit of the doubt. if you're really worried, let him make all the first moves. if he doesn't, you'll have your answer.
    she's not that kind of a girl, booger!

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Jet @ Nov 10 2007, 10:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    in the past, when i&#39;ve had one night stands, if i don&#39;t start the "will we see each other again?" convo and he doesn&#39;t bring it up, i assume that nothing else is going to happen.[/b]
    So, what if he&#39;s waiting for you to bring it up? Or do guys not do that? I&#39;m completely clueless about guys right now, so I&#39;m really asking.
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    oh, i&#39;ll bring it up if i&#39;m interested. although i haven&#39;t had a one night stand in years...i don&#39;t remember really being interested in many of them afterwards.
    she's not that kind of a girl, booger!

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    i had a one night stand once. Afterwards, going around the room picking up clothes, he was like "i can&#39;t find my phone, can you give it a ring" so he gives me the number and i call it, his phone rings and we find it. But then i&#39;m like "shit, now he has my number". I didn&#39;t particularly want him to have it. He rang soon after i left. And the next day.

    But I do think this guy likes you. But isn&#39;t there an unwritten rule that they have to wait 3 days to call or something?
    Maybe you should call him?
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    Oh yay finally I can reply.

    He messaged me Saturday Arvo. And like a chick I&#39;m analising everything, he was sending double messages. Which I&#39;ve found is always a good sign if he spends ten minutes thumbing to you. But whatever, haha.

    I&#39;m not too concerned anymore. That fresh lusty feeling has dwindled and he didnt reply to a message sent Sunday so I&#39;m not really hanging for him. I am however going to the city Friday night I&#39;ll see if he wants to catch up for some drinkiepoos. If anything awesome accumulates I&#39;ll let you know haha.
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    Sweet as the Punch.

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