A few months after.
I have to be in love with the people I have sex with.
How many dates would you go out with someone without sex resulting?
Just my 2 cents: In my mind anything from 1st to 3rd date is fine. Anything past that and I think there just isn't enough reciprocal attraction.
Much more interested in hearing what you guys think.
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A few months after.
I have to be in love with the people I have sex with.
I'm not really into the "dating" scene so I would just say, if I actually like them a lot, I would wait about a month. And by then you'll have wanted it so badly that when that day comes, you just have great sex all night long. It's important to ME to not have sex too early because if I do, I'll get weirded out and break up with them so I have to put it off until I'm either about to die of sexual frustration or have finally reached a point where I know I won't freak out.
As for someone I'm not sure about, maybe not even that interested in, than first date is fine with me.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Strawberry_Kisses @ Jan 8 2008, 10:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>You fall in love after just a few months??? Like for serial.A few months after.
I have to be in love with the people I have sex with.[/b]![]()
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First 20 minutes: Making out and teasing
Next 20 minutes: Ripping clothes off/foreplay/oral
Next 40 minutes: Sex, then more sex until I get sick of making her come or she starts bitching about me not coming yet... then Ill blow my load and go to sleep.
Oh, how long do I wait? Fuck that, Im a guy, we dont wait. We are already thinking about sleeping with you the moment we meet.
2:05 AM [Lothar] kinda like beef stew but they use guinness
2:05 AM [Greaser] and it gets your dick hard?
2:05 AM [Lothar] yeah, it's that good
I don't wait long enough, I think. I used to, but not anymore. It's weird, but I don't really know how to not have sex. Like....if we're making out and all that other bullshit, how do we stop? How do you go, "okay, that's enough of that..." and just stop? I seriously don't know how. I have no idea how to not go there. Plus, I love sex, so why not? I think it's because I was in a relationship for so long and got used to having sex on a regular basis. That's just how it was. We started getting frisky (ha. I love that word.), we'd have sex, and that's how we both knew that our little friskiness was done. Just makes sense to me.
If I just make out or something, I feel extremely unsatisfied and juvenile, even with a new guy. Ha. Does that make me a whore?![]()
10:21 PM [TheMadCatter] I got free shipping, 20 dollars off, and a free tote bag12:26 AM [smirk] i think blended margaritas taste good sometimes(11:44:55 PM) Onionman: I was watching oprah...Personman says (3:16 AM):So I'm not girl like enough for you?
no aimee, i believe that makes you awesome.
"While most men are constantly trying to work as hard as they can in order to add a little more mass to their bodies, the majority of women seem to believe that they have been blessed with the most extraordinary genetics ever and that they will blow up once they touch a weight."
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Back when i was dating, it was a couple of months. But after reading Aimee's post, i wonder if i was to start dating again if i would be like. Although, i decided that if i have to ever do another relationship, i'm waiting until i'm married. So hopefully i never have to end this one.
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Heh. I hear you Aimee. Don't really have credability to answer to this topic, but it would be nice to wait a few more weeks than I have in the past. But sometimes, I just can't help myself :wub:
Sweet as the Punch.Syco- "The Empress is the latter leg of this triad, representing the physical body and the material world. From her comes all the pleasure of the senses and the abundance of life in all its forms. She is also the mother archetype, and through her we get a first glimpse of the power of love in the Tarot." I think this is all representative of awesomly large tits, no?
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Ghetto Onion @ Jan 9 2008, 01:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>A few months meaning like almost a year :PYou fall in love after just a few months??? Like for serial.[/b]
I should have rephrased that better.... but me and my boyfriend told each other I love you pretty fast this time (he said it first) , and I am a billion percent sure that is true. He's the best thing since sliced bread :P lol.
Either way, we've been together for 4 and half months now (I know it seems early, I was very surprised too) but we don't plan on having sex anytime soon because we want to both wait until we think its the right time to... and right now its not. It will happen eventually thoughAnd it'll just make it more meaningful.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Isaku @ Jan 9 2008, 12:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>Ha. Of course you would say that!no aimee, i believe that makes you awesome.[/b]![]()
10:21 PM [TheMadCatter] I got free shipping, 20 dollars off, and a free tote bag12:26 AM [smirk] i think blended margaritas taste good sometimes(11:44:55 PM) Onionman: I was watching oprah...Personman says (3:16 AM):So I'm not girl like enough for you?
Normaly 3 dates or 2 weeks if you're not offering me anything else to make up for the lack of physical embracing meaning gotta stimulates my mind or we have fun doing non sex stuff.
If she isn't filling in the gap properly, she is a cock tease and is wasting my time cuz I for one wasn't hot or good enuff for her to not put out by a certain time which tires my ill patiened mind I will end up saying...... NEXT!
When it comes to pink butterflies i could give a flying fuck.
I'd say at least three dates as well. I dunno. I never really dated a lot.![]()
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TheMadCatter @ Jun 23 2008, 06:36 PM:Get the fuck off my board you bitch.
Depends on the situation I think. Sometimes its the first hour of knowing them. One night stands anyone? Other than that my goal is 2nd possibly third date, otherwise I can tell that she isn't sexually active, and while I don't think sex is the most important part of a relationship, I do think its a big part of a relationship.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Tovlakas @ Jan 11 2006, 10:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>my ex had never given a bj before and was saying she was afraid to also, so we just got helza drunk one night and then walaa she did it. try that.
I think it's interesting how most guys here prefer sex extremely early, and most girls prefer to wait a bit. If any of you tried to date each other it so wouldn't work. :P
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