ok, here's the deal... i'm 22 and quite inexperienced. However in recent months i have had 2 one night stands. Im not here to discuss the rights and wrongs about this, its done, and i dont have a problem with it.
The problem is, i kinda struggled. There was plenty of foreplay, kissing, touching, etc and particularly with the more recent one it seems i was doing a decent job! However, when it came to the crunch, putting on the condom and going for penetration I lost my erection, que a bit of embaressment and blagging i had drunk too much, and maybe that was what it was? On both occasions i was pretty drunk, hammered even! Ive also heard of people finding condoms a hinderance as well, could that have been the problem? or maybe even just nerves?
i dunno, its kinda playing on my mind a bit since, and not being the most experienced i dunno if ive just been drunk/unlucky, or whether its something i should be concerned about?!
any advice?
BEing drunk can be a hindrance.
Also, alot of people lose erections when they have to put on a condom because they basically have to stop the moment to do it. You can remedy this by getting her to put it on. Try incorporating it into the foreplay so it seems less removed from the moment.
And you probably just need to practice. One night stands don't make good practice though.
True beauty is an exchange, not an observation. - Lucid Rog
You're nervous because you're inexperienced. Instead of having fun with everything you're just saying "shit shit shit I hope I don't screw up shit shit" the entire time. Loosen up a bit and concentrate on having a good time with it rather than getting everything perfect.
Relax. It's sex. It's fun.
"Hic puer est stultissimus omnium."
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