Thread: Death and sex

10 years older? Is she a staff member?

edit: never mind I thought you were in HS.

Feeling guilty just because she's married? No way man, that's perfectly alright! In fact, now is your chance - she's emotionally vulnerable after losing her mother, there's no better time to put your dick into her! Strike whilst the iron is sobbing and weak!

Don't do it. Not if you want to stay in any form of contact with her afterwards.

'Grief' sex ruined a friendship for me. Sex isn't life affirming after death, its just a "Whatever can make me forget about this shit" type deal. This guy I was friends with put the moves on after my dad died, and I went along with it for a bit, thinking I wanted it. Nope. I had to kick him out, and couldn't stay friends with him afterwards. I was disgusted with myself, and upset that he'd try to take advantage of my grief. I haven't talked to him since that day.

Nevermind the whole married thing. Thats a whole other boat right there.

If you have any ounce of actual friendship towards her, you won't go and fuck with her head right now. Believe me if you somehow convince her to let you take a dip, it wont sit well with her afterwards. She doesn't need that.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LittleBit @ Apr 7 2008, 03:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

Don&#39;t do it. Not if you want to stay in any form of contact with her afterwards.

&#39;Grief&#39; sex ruined a friendship for me. Sex isn&#39;t life affirming after death, its just a "Whatever can make me forget about this shit" type deal. This guy I was friends with put the moves on after my dad died, and I went along with it for a bit, thinking I wanted it. Nope. I had to kick him out, and couldn&#39;t stay friends with him afterwards. I was disgusted with myself, and upset that he&#39;d try to take advantage of my grief. I haven&#39;t talked to him since that day.

Nevermind the whole married thing. Thats a whole other boat right there.

If you have any ounce of actual friendship towards her, you won&#39;t go and fuck with her head right now. Believe me if you somehow convince her to let you take a dip, it wont sit well with her afterwards. She doesn&#39;t need that.[/b]

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Nothing else to say.

What a fucked up scenario. Um. There&#39;s a good chance this could go awfully wrong. Even if she consents and has sex with you, It&#39;s probable she&#39;ll feel you&#39;ve taken advantage of her. When someone grieves they can be very needy and emotional (obviously) hence vulnerable. Depends if you want to take that risk.

lol, dude you can&#39;t find any other bitches to fuck except some old ass used broad, and then you need some griefrodisiac to stand a chance at getting in her pants?

Sorry man.

MAH! THE MEATLOAF!!!

CRAZY HORNY!

I&#39;m just upset this wasn&#39;t about fucking dead chicks.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (The Distracted Kitty @ Apr 9 2008, 01:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

In my defense, I wanted to have sex with her BEFORE her mother died
This just came on unexpectedly. So now, I should feel forever guilty about fucking her? I mean, I can&#39;t just say, ok a month&#39;s gone by, she should be ok now. Some people never get over their parents dying, does that mean all women who are missing parents are off limits? I don&#39;t want to hurt this girl, mostly I&#39;ve just been sitting around listening to her bitch about everything, how her husband doesn&#39;t appreciate her or finds her attractive or sexy and it sometimes feels like she&#39;s messing with my head. And she&#39;s not some dried up old mom, she&#39;s like 35, never had kids, super athletic, and hasn&#39;t fucked in 3 years cuz she&#39;s so loyal to her husband, and from what she tells me, her husband&#39;s prolly cheating on her but I can&#39;t tell her that.

But to stay on topic, it&#39;s not that women get horny, they just want to be close to someone, or anyone? but not have sex, or... I don&#39;t get it. If someone you love died, what about that makes your crotch hot that someone horrible like me might take advantage of <_<[/b]

dude it sounds to me like you already feel guilty. if you didn&#39;t, you would be doing it, not on here talking about it trying to justify yourself. do it if you want but then if she turns around and says you&#39;re an ass for using her then be a man and deal with it. it doesn&#39;t sound like you care that much anyway.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (The Distracted Kitty @ Apr 8 2008, 09:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

In my defense, I wanted to have sex with her BEFORE her mother died
This just came on unexpectedly. So now, I should feel forever guilty about fucking her? I mean, I can&#39;t just say, ok a month&#39;s gone by, she should be ok now. Some people never get over their parents dying, does that mean all women who are missing parents are off limits? I don&#39;t want to hurt this girl, mostly I&#39;ve just been sitting around listening to her bitch about everything, how her husband doesn&#39;t appreciate her or finds her attractive or sexy and it sometimes feels like she&#39;s messing with my head. And she&#39;s not some dried up old mom, she&#39;s like 35, never had kids, super athletic, and hasn&#39;t fucked in 3 years cuz she&#39;s so loyal to her husband, and from what she tells me, her husband&#39;s prolly cheating on her but I can&#39;t tell her that.

But to stay on topic, it&#39;s not that women get horny, they just want to be close to someone, or anyone? but not have sex, or... I don&#39;t get it. If someone you love died, what about that makes your crotch hot that someone horrible like me might take advantage of <_<[/b]

The endorphins - needing release and escape. Simmilar to why people drink, or do drugs alot after someone dies. Someone close, something distracting, it feels good. Change of pace. Sex is a huge stress reliever and death creates some pretty stressful times. Also, sex can be a huge emotional outlet. A way to funnel all of your emotions into one long fuck. But, almost always regretted later.

She&#39;s not off limits forever(other than ya know, her vows that she made for &#39;forever&#39. But I&#39;d atleast give it a few months until her head starts to clear and the grief isn&#39;t as intense. Depending on the type of person she is, she could come out quickly, or dwell on it for a while.

Atleast your not a complete douche, haha. My &#39;friend&#39; tried before we&#39;d even had the funeral.