Thread: Question about Sex

I think a little bit of both, but its more on yourself.

If your partner isn't trying to get you in the mood/turn you on and is selfish when having sex - then theres really not much you can do to get turned on if everything sucks, so its their fault.

If your partner is doing all the right things to get your motor going and you cant pull yourself away from your stresses/todo list/worries etc, then its your own fault for not getting turned on.

And sometimes its no ones fault and theres nothing either can do - sometimes we just cant get going.

But obviously its ultimately your job to know what you like and to tell your partner so they know how to turn you on, so most of the responsibility lays on you to make sure your partner knows what to do when they do try to turn you on.

Maybe you don't get turned on because you're ugly and he'd rather do Jessica Alba.

For the record, as far as Jessicas go, Biel is way hotter, and I leave pictures of her by the toilet to encourage my girl's bulimia.

man lothar...everytime....its freaking automatic.

you set her up, she knocks em down...like clockwork.

What a strange question. Not in terms of It's a question from Peaches so It's retarded but in terms of how one can see it. I have no idea. All I know, is everytime I have sex, I'm hella turned on and ready to go. Now that could be because I pretty much have a juice button and one minute of thinking about it/getting touched in snoogly places is all it really takes to get me going, however sex is much more fun when you start off uninterested/neutral and he drives you wild with all kinds of fun, torturous games (neck kisses and back tickles, holy shiiitt!!)

It works both ways though. As in I get turned on giving and receiving. But more the point, if your SO doesn't turn you on, what's the point of having sex? Go play chess or something...It is their responsibility if they plan on having sex with you.

I honestly think that this, like all good sex, should be a two-way type of deal. It shouldn't be a one-way thing; if someone is turned on enough, it's go-time! One of my favorite sex stories was when my then-girlfriend felt the need to have sex right then and there at the party we were at; we ended up fucking on the roof of her VW beetle, and it was hot as hell. Similarly, I got all hot and bothered one night and ended up fucking her in a rocking chair; she said it was the best she'd ever had.

The main point is that one person in the relationship shouldn't be designated to "start" anything; sex is a two-way street, and both people have to have an open mind to get the most out of the deal.

...as ze elusive and majestic striped-lothar bottom feeder comes into view, a hush falls upon the crew of the submarine...

It's starting to feel like I'm hitting the chubby kid with a dodgeball over and over.

Which, I admit, is still pretty funny.