Thread: "Bukkake"

It's not like the girl is crying in the videos and trying to get away....she volunteered to do it.

I'm not a guy but you get my opinion anyway. And really, I think you're just craving for some guy to answer "yes" to all your questions and confirm your beliefs that men are pigs and want nothing more than to express their dominance and how much better they are than women.

I think bukkake is both amusing and sad. Amusing because this girl volunteers to let a bunch of dudes cover her face (and more sometimes) in jism. And she, because of whatever psychological fuckups she has, enjoys it. Amusing also because there's like a bunch of dudes standing around in a circle, naked, jerking off in front of each other. That's funny.

Sad is obvious. A girl is allowing herself to be degraded, whether she knows it's degrading or not. If she doesn't know it's degrading, than what else would she consider "acceptable" for a man to do to her. And obviously, it's sad because there's a bunch of guys volunteering to degrade some girl and they're enjoying it. But really, it's a group effort. A girl allowing herself to be degraded is as much to blame as the men doing it to her.

Bukkake also refers to multiple women ejaculating, too FYI. It's not just men that do it.

1. Personal experience - no. Most men have no desire to circle jerk with other men.
2. Again - No. Bukkake isn't common or mainstream. It's fetish porn.
3. I think most men are probably turned off by them. But it's kinda like a car crash.
4. I think it's all a matter of personal opinion. If it doesn't bother the woman in the videos - then it's no ones business. We're all entitled to enjoy what we do. We're all also entitled to say we won't do something and not enjoy it. If she enjoys it, thats her deal. Period. Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
5. It's not mainstream at all. Believe me, I've seen/see a lot of porn - and it's not something that comes up um, ever. Unless you're looking for it.
6.Dunno. Some men like it, some women like it. Majority don't.
7. Probably shitty. Unless he was into that sort of thing.
8. Well, I am not a man. But just as some women like/enjoy things other people would view as being used/degraded - some men do too. Again, all personal opinion. If you feel something is degrading, don't do it. But that doesn't mean no one should do it or enjoy it, or feel its an acceptable act.

It's no ones business or place to say what is or isn't right/degrading/disrespectful regarding sex, because those are very personal opinions. If you don't like something, don't do it.

Don't get me wrong - it baffles me too. But, I figure to each their own. I don't think you have to worry about it, I'd be willing to guess that it doesn't appeal to a very large portion of the male gender. Guaranteed the men and women who willingly participate have some fucked up views of the female gender, but I think their fucked up views go beyond that, too.

i can't believe people are responding seriously to this.

there are hundreds of sexual paraphilia

here's a list of other stuff to get disgusted and offended by

Abasiophilia: love of (or sexual attraction to) people who are lame or crippled and/or who use leg braces or other orthopaedic appliances[1]
Agalmatophilia: sexual attraction to statues or mannequins or immobility
Algolagnia: sexual pleasure from pain[2]
Acrotomophilia: sexual attraction to amputees[3]
Andromimetophilia: sexual attraction towards female-to-male transsexuals[4]
Apotemnophilia: sex arousal associated with being, becoming, or being perceived as an amputee[5]
Aquaphilia: arousal from water and/or in watery environments, including bathtubs and swimming pools
Aretifism: sexual attraction to people who are without footwear, in contrast to retifism
Argyrophilia: sexual attraction to a person/depiction in the black-and-white medium.
Autoassassinophilia: sexual arousal derived from fantasizing about one's own death at the hands of another - the opposite of Lust murder
Autogynephilia: a male's sexual arousal in response to the image of himself as female
Biastophilia: sexual arousal from assault and rape
Chronophilia: sexual attraction to a partner of a widely differing chronological age
Clinophilia: sometimes characterised as a love of beds
Coprophilia: sexual attraction to (or pleasure from) feces. It's strictly related to Fecophilia, sexual arousal from defacation or watching a partner defecate, particularly on oneself
Coulrophilia: sexual attraction to clowns, mimes and jesters. The person behind the face paint could be anybody that you may or may not know.
Dacryphilia: sexual pleasure in eliciting tears from others or oneself
Emetophilia (also vomerophilia): sexual attraction to vomiting
Erotic asphyxia: sexual attraction from asphyxia (also called "breath control play" or "strangulation"), including autoerotic asphyxiation
Erotic lactation (also galactophilia or lactophilia): sexual attraction to human milk or lactating women
Exhibitionism (also autagonistophilia or peodeiktophilia): the recurrent urge to or enacting of exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting persons; also, sexual arousal by engaging in sexual behavior in view of third parties.[6]
Food play: sexual arousal from food
Formicophilia: sexual attraction to smaller animals, insects, etc. crawling on parts of the body
Forniphilia: sexual objectification in which a person's body is incorporated into a piece of furniture
Frotteurism: sexual arousal from the recurrent urge or behavior of touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person[6]
Gynandromorphophilia: sexual attraction to women with penises, men cross-dressed as women, or male-to-female transsexuals[7]
Gynemimetophilia sexual attraction towards male-to-female transsexuals[4]
Hebephilia: sexual attraction to pubescent children[8]
Homeovestism: sexual arousal by wearing the clothing of one's own gender
Human animal roleplay: sexual arousal by having oneself or a partner taking on the role of real or imaginary animal
Hybristophilia: sexual arousal to people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes
Infantophilia: sexual attraction to children three years old or younger
Katoptronophilia: sexual arousal from having sex in front of mirrors
Kleptophilia: sexual arousal from stealing things
Kitten Play: utilizing Cat characteristics or identities
Klismaphilia: sexual pleasure from enemas
Lust murder (also homicidophilia or erotophonophilia): sexual arousal from committing (or fantasizing about committing) murder - the opposite of Autoassassinophilia
Macrophilia: sexual attraction to giants, giantessess or giant body parts (such as breasts and genitalia)—the opposite of microphilia
Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer[6]
Microphilia: sexual attraction to miniature people or miniature body parts — the opposite of macrophilia
Mysophilia: sexual attraction to soiled, dirty, foul or decaying materials
Narratophilia: sexual arousal in the use of dirty or obscene words to a partner
Necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses
Nepiophilia: sexual attraction to children three years old or younger
Odaxelagnia: sexual arousal associated with biting or being bitten
Olfactophilia: sexual stimulus with smells or odors. (see also Jock sniffing)
Paraphilic infantilism: sexual pleasure from dressing, acting, or being treated as a baby
Parthenophilia: sexual attraction to virgins
Partialism: exaggerated sexual interest in a non-genital very specific body part
Paedophilia: sexual attraction to prepubescent children[9] (American spelling: pedophilia)
Pedohebephilia: sexual attaction to children, both pubescent and prepubescent[10]
Pictophilia: sexual attraction to pictorial pornography or erotic art
Plushophilia: sexual attraction to stuffed animals and/or people dressed in animal costumes
Podophilia: sexual attraction to human feet
Pup-play: human animal roleplay utilizing canine characteristics or identities
Pyrophilia: sexual arousal through watching, setting, hearing, talking or fantasizing about fire
Sadism: deriving pleasure, or in some cases sexual arousal from giving pain[6]
Scatophilia: sexual arousal involving sexual pleasure from feces.
Salirophila: sexual arousal by soiling (only the appearance of) the object of one's desired partner
Sitophilia: sexual arousal by involving food in sex
Somnophilia: sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people. It appears to be related to necrophilia.
Sthenolagnia: sexual arousal from the demonstration of strength or muscles
Telephone scatologia: being sexually aroused by making obscene phone calls to strangers[6]
Teratophilia: sexual attraction to deformed or monstrous people
Transvestism: a male's sexual arousal from wearing female clothes;[11] also called transvestic autogynephilia[12]
Trichophilia: sexual arousal from hair
Troilism (also spelled triolism): Sexual interest in watching one's regular sexual partner having sex with a third party, usually unbeknownst to the third party.
Urolagnia: sexual attraction to urine, including urinating in public, urinating on others, and being urinated on by others; it includes Urophagia: sexual attraction to drinking urine or watching others drink urine.
Vorarephilia: sexual attraction at the thought of being eaten by or eating another person or creature.
Voyeurism: (also scoptophilia) sexual arousal through secretly watching others in intimate situations, such as disrobing, being naked, or having sex[6]
Xenophily: sexual attraction to foreigners (in science fiction, it can also mean sexual attraction to aliens)
Zelophilia: sexual arousal from jealousy
Zoophilia: sexual attraction to animals
Zoosadism: sexual gratification derived from causing pain and suffering to animals; necrozoophilia (also necrobestiality) strictly applies to killing animals

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Peaches @ Jun 18 2008, 12:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

The Japanese are total weridos.[/b]

also, that is a very offensive racist statement, please retract it.

just because you can make up words from latin doesnt mean any of those are actually recognized by any medical entity

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (TheMadCatter @ Jun 18 2008, 12:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

just because you can make up words from latin doesnt mean any of those are actually recognized by any medical entity[/b]

i did a mass copy/paste from a list of sexual paraphilia on wikipedia.

not all of them are recognized as paraphilia in the DSM...but a lot of them are.

The deal with fetishes is that they are outside of the normal mainstream desires - meaning that most people don&#39;t get turned on by them and those that do are in the minority.

Bukkake is one of many fetishes like Isaku pointed out. There&#39;s all sorts of weird ones out there. From bondage (on the minor end) to things like necrophilia (on the major end). I get quite disturbed when I read or hear about certain fetishes, but then I have to remember that as long as people are consenting and enjoying it then who am I to say anything about it?

People have all sorts of psychological and emotional ticks that make them respond positively (and conversely negatively) to certain sexual activities. The best way to find out about who is into what is to approach it with an open mind and honest communication. Doesn&#39;t mean you have to get into it or even understand it, but it makes you more informed and empowered.

Most men I know of don&#39;t really think much of bukkake. It seems it&#39;s one of those things that more for show than actually doing it. You won&#39;t find many women that are willing.

Also, please remember that it&#39;s really not fair to accept that the women who like it have some kind of issues and put it aside, yet not give men the same courtesy. Men and women both like all kinds of strange things. You see examples of it with all the fetish clubs around. From what I&#39;ve seen there is no clear majority between the genders for fetishes on the whole.

Isaku is right. Saying that the Japanese are &#39;total weirdos&#39; is not cool. Every ethnic group/race etc has their own deviant proclivities that don&#39;t necessarily reflect on the whole.

One last thing... I often find that when I discover something that disturbs me and almost angers me it is because it strikes a nerve within me. With that in mind, I find it&#39;s important for me to separate my issues from the acts that disturb me. It&#39;s easy to get offended. It&#39;s not so easy to understand why.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Peaches @ Jun 18 2008, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

The Japanese are total weridos.[/b]

Go fuck yourself u racist bitch.