Thread: I can't finish/his dick is too big

You're getting porked by a pringles can, quit yer bitchin.

OK dont ever put your legs on his shoulders. You'll die and so will your cervix. Um shallow thrusts I think coincide with reverse cowgirl. You can lean forward and push as far as you need. Another thing always make sure you never have sex when you need to poo. Even a small dick can whack you in the turd through your vagina and its hurts. Anyway. Um. About the orgasm deal. If It's clit stimulation you need I suggest you whack yourself off until you're about to cum (no lube, make sure you're wet as fuck NATURALLY) and then jump on him ontop and push your clit as hard into his pelvic bone as you can. I can have a clit orgasm if I lean really far forward or a vaginal orgasm if I lean really far back, It's groovy because I can alternate and have like a million! Or...six! In one "sitting". Heh. Yeah. Sometimes it even helps if the clit area is a bit dry...friction can work for you sometimes. Better yet if you can juggle balancing and pressure you should totally lube up your nipples and rub them while you grind into him (ask him to push his pelvis up too it helps a million!) Good luck mittens, happy fucking.

I'd probably recommend being on top, because then you have control over the depth and speed. I also find it easier to get off when i'm on top, as you can put more pressure on your clit, which results in easier orgasms.

So, why don't you look for a man with a small dick?

Because she doesn't want to s****** she wants to orgasm? Perhaps?

I echo syco with the no legs on his shoulders - although that excuriciating "you broke my cervix' pain, is kinda hot sometimes. Doggy style laying down - cross your legs at your ankles. Stops him from getting deep, plus it's tighter. On top obviously since you're in control.

And good luck with getting off from vaginal stimulation, not a ton of girls can do it. I can count once that I have. All though if I orgasm from clit play during sex, I WILL have a vaginal orgasm. But I can't have them alone.

No, I've never come vaginally either. Always stimulate the clit...

You said you've tried vibrators? Have you ever tried a little bee that vibrates and it has straps that go around your legs and it stays right on your sweet spot but doesn't interfere with sex. It really, really, really works well.

I'd say get yourself a little worked up with a vibrator beforehand, and then use the little bee during sex and just focus on the orgasm. It's hard for women to go if they can't concentrate, so it needs to be your main goal.

It's hard, but you'll figure out what works and you'll get there.

As for the little bee, I'm sure you can get it on a site like goodvibrations.com, as for me I got mine from the local show world so if you have a shop like that in close proximity it would probably be quicker and cheaper.

I cant get off on either

Thanks for the advice guys.

Fruity: I feel like it's even worse when I'm on top.

I always feel like I can't come from clit stimulation during sex because my legs aren't tense enough. I need a sex swing or something.



Do you think guys with huge dicks get bothered by the fact that vaginas never really fully *swallow* the penis? If shallow thrusts are the way to go.... the whole shaft doesn't get to join in. Do guys even care?

It beats the alternative.

Eh even with 7+ you can get it in pretty good. Unless youre rocking some foot long pringles can, its not a big deal.

Maybe your vagina is broken? Shallow cervices = no fun

Daisy - I have to have my legs really tense too. Thats why clit stimulation really only works during sex if he's pushing against my legs, or I'm some how able to close em. Not many positions I can get off in.

Eh I don't think guys with big ones 'can't' get it in, if you get creative with positioning, you can still get it all the way in without it hurting too much. And sometimes you gotta be a good girl and grin and bear the pain for a while - I find if I keep my mouth shut when it hurts, that sometimes it stops hurting after a few minutes. Things stretch out, or go numb, or something.