My friend has had the hots for this guy for about 2 years now. I know it, all her friends know it, everyone in the room with her and that guy know she wants to jump his bones, I'm pretty sure he realizes it too. But after all this time they still haven't had sex, and she's still after him, a week ago or so we were out together and I just ask the two of them, 'So when you two gonna fuck already?' And I told him how everyone knows she wants him and that he wont fuck her. My thinking is, after 2 years, if the fucker doesn't know, he ought to, and if she can't seduce him in that time, she will never anyway, so there's no harm being done. Yet, she ran outside, I told him to go talk to her, they jumped in his van and drove off without saying goodbye (he was her ride).
Hopefully they fucked but I don't think so. See, the only thing I can think of is that he either doesn't find her attractive (which if he doesn't he should stop flirting) or he doesn't want to date her because she's very unstable (though she hasn't really mentioned anything more than just wanting sex). She gets pissed off and depressed over him which suggests she might want more than sex, idk. I tell her to move on or at least play a little hard to get, she's practically offering herself every time she sees him.
So what can I tell her to make her realize it's not gonna happen and that she should move on. She says she understands, and that she'll move on, but I always see her and this guy together. He's weird too, he MUST know, why the fuck does he hang out with her so much. Maybe I should be telling him to back off from her. Ideas?
Oh thank god. I thought you were going to say "my friend hadn't had sex for two years, so I tried to fuck her", but alas, you didnt!
I think all you can do is apologise and wait. Some people don't want others to interfere and despite the circumstances, that's what you did.
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Oooh, I don't believe you outed her.
Maybe they liked what they had going on, maybe that was suitable for them. She acted down and depressed about him, but some people actually like to feel that way. You said she has some issues, like questionable mental stability? That could have been exactly the twisted and warped semblance of a relationship that she wanted, and you brought her supposed secret romance to the light.
I don't know... there's so few reasonable explanations when someone is crazy, but usually if they havn't told the other person that they like them there's a reason for it.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (distracted @ Jul 23 2008, 12:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>So basically, in front of the girl, u tell this guy that she wants to fuck him and has been secretly wanting him all this time?'So when you two gonna fuck already?' And I told him how everyone knows she wants him and that he wont fuck her. My thinking is, after 2 years, if the fucker doesn't know, he ought to, and if she can't seduce him in that time, she will never anyway, so there's no harm being done. Yet, she ran outside, I told him to go talk to her, they jumped in his van and drove off without saying goodbye (he was her ride).[/b]
Personally, i think you're kind of an asshole for doing that. How is it any of your business? Not to mention you just made things really awkward for the two of them, especially if they don't end up hooking up. Imagine how embarrassed she must have felt having that revealed right in front of him.
I'm really glad I'm not friends with you.
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How about you don't tell her what to do? You really are a shitty friend for clearly embarrassing her.
Let your friend sort out her own problems. If it gets to you in anyway as in her constantly talking about, well then tell her you don't want to hear it because you are tired of it. Anything else i see backfiring on you. No one likes to be embarrassed in front of their crush or made to look the fool (regardless of whether they are one).
You are the dumbest person on S-B.
For some reason, I have a feeling that you want this girl. I'm not so intuitive, though, so I'm sure I'm wrong.
But yeah, that was kind of an asshole move.
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If she ever speaks to you again then you should consider yourself lucky
How is this any of your business? Is your life that boring that you have to try to run other peoples?
You owe both of them an apology, and if they both tell you to fuck off you only have yourself to blame.
How you can think to call yourself this girls friend is beyond me.
so there's no harm being done.
You have just outed yourself as an a grade fucktard and an untrustworthy friend so no, no harm done and these people know to avoid you like the plague.
Nice work
And I told him how everyone knows she wants him and that he wont fuck her
What made you think it was acceptable to say that? Maybe when you grow up you might understand just how wrong you were to behave like that, and maybe if you're lucky you might even have some friends left
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Well I probably could have said it better but it was the truth. Everyone knows what the deal is. Fuck, we were sitting around on a bench trying to figure out where to go and we couldn't discuss cuz she was busy poking and biting him and shoving her boobs in his face and trying to act all cute and it's really sad to watch when you see him he's like sighing and rolling his eyes and this has been going on for like 2 years. I felt that he is leading her on cuz he likes the attention but doesn't want to be with her for whatever reason, and she's getting over a 20 year relationship and has other issues she doesn't want to confront. I was hoping by bringing them out they could talk about it candidly. So all the advice that I've gotten so far is that I'm an asshole and that I should mind my own business basically. This was helpful.
Er.. people will do lots of dumb shit that you don't understand, but if you want to live a peaceful life yourself you don't go calling them on their shit.. and especially not in public. People's business is their business, and if it's genuinely affecting how you live your life then you have a word with them in private. I just think this is common sense..
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div>Believe it, because it's true.So all the advice that I've gotten so far is that I'm an asshole and that I should mind my own business basically. This was helpful.[/b]
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savmotronPeople do what they do. I mitigate their hazard to me and move on.
stuff is just stuff. your emotional health is much more important. holding raging anger in is more harmful than your faggot-assed tv that probably deserves to get its ass beat anyway.
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