Thread: Premature Ejaculation

Guaranteed the first few times performance anxiety got the better of you and allowed you to keep going.

If you feel you're about to go, pull out and go back to foreplay. Go down on her, kiss her, whatever you can do without your penis.

Do it long enough that you'll have to build everything back up.

Change the rythym/speed/position during sex so you can't get the repetition needed to get going.

Happens to all guys every now and then, and especially at the beginning of a relationship when anticipation and excitment are through the roof.

My boyfriend and I don't see each other very often in the summer which means sex is infrequent. So when we do have sex, he's waaaay more sensitive than if we were having sex regularly and it takes him a little bit to get used to it. He has to stop and pull out to keep from getting off or go slower and then ease back into it until he knows he can last. He makes sure to keep me satisfied in the mean time, otherwise it would be hella frustrating for things to be feeling good and then stopping 4-5 times.

And guys know when they're about to get off so wouldn't it be easy to just pull out? Unless you have no self control or are being selfish.

The fact that you lasted 20 minutes before means you are more than capable...try practicing some control and pull out when you get close maybe? Or if that isn't enough get your girlfriend to yank on your nuts?

I don't know if any of this information is credible and I'm totally admitting that...but sometimes Cosmo tells me true things.

Or hey, go down on her beforehand! Yeah! If you finger her while you do it and put the other hand on her breast....holy fucking shit go find out haha.

If its been a long time between romps, I will blow a load hella fast until I remember what a vagina feels like.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Syco @ Aug 11 2008, 10:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

Or hey, go down on her beforehand! Yeah! If you finger her while you do it and put the other hand on her breast....holy fucking shit go find out haha.[/b]

great point, get her off before you go for the penetrative sex, that way she will be satisfied and so will you

I don&#39;t know about yanking on nuts but I have always found that if you grasp the base of the penis and have the tips of your fingers on the side closest to the body and hold tightly it might stop you cumming