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    this summer i lost my virginity (finally!) to a guy i was seeing. we just broke up recently and now i'm really conflicted about my views on sex.

    the problem is i get soooo horny, all the time. and getting myself off just isn't cutting it. so it might seem reasonable to do the whole friends with benefits thing, or throw in a random here and there right? i thought that after i slept with someone that i would have no problem being with other guys .. but that isn't the case. unlike foreplay which stopped being 'special' a long time ago, sex still is to me. and it's deeffffinitely not an issue of finding someone to sleep with, i get plenty of offers.

    in highschool i hooked up (minus sex) with a lot of guys and at the time my self esteem was pretty bad. i feel great about myself now and i'm pretty sure sleeping around would destroy that if i feel used like i did then. i'm also pretty proud of myself that i haven't given in to being a giant slut like most girls i know.

    hmm i'm just really conflicted ... give in to suppress this whole horny as fuck stage orrr wait it out and keep my morals in touch. what principles do you guys go by? am i making way to big a deal out of sleeping around? i don't know what is the 'right' thing to do!



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    You can have sex and not sleep around. There is nothing wrong with that, just wear ([color=#000000;background:#000000]fucking[/color]) condoms. If you still feel that sex is "special," then find someone that is sufficiently "special" to date. Or, you could always buy a vibrator.

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    You need a boyfriend coma, or a vibrator, i don't know anyone who can successfully sleep around without scattering chunks of their soul all over the place.. !
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    i remember being in that place. I chose a couple of fuck buddies, and proceeded to have a fair bit of horrible sex. If i could go back in time, i'd probably stop myself from doing it, because ultimately it wasn't worth it.
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (comawhite @ Sep 22 2008, 02:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    in highschool i hooked up (minus sex)[/b]
    Wow, if you can still hook up without having sex, then I&#39;ve hooked up with half the girls I went to high school with!

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Speed @ Sep 22 2008, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (comawhite @ Sep 22 2008, 02:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    in highschool i hooked up (minus sex)[/b]
    Wow, if you can still hook up without having sex, then I&#39;ve hooked up with half the girls I went to high school with!
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    Um, no.....you haven&#39;t.
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Aimee @ Sep 22 2008, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Speed @ Sep 22 2008, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (comawhite @ Sep 22 2008, 02:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    in highschool i hooked up (minus sex)[/b]
    Wow, if you can still hook up without having sex, then I&#39;ve hooked up with half the girls I went to high school with!
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    Um, no.....you haven&#39;t.
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    Hmmm syco i like how you put that. i think for the time being i&#39;ll wait until i find someone good enough for round 2.

    What does everyone here think of slutty girls? Are they gross or somewhat desireable?

    It&#39;s so strange how something can mean so much or so little to different people!

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    Generally an acutal slutty girl doesn&#39;t seem to have any self respect.
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    Slutty girls, in my opinion, are not desirable. Once the (pathetically easy) chase is over, you&#39;re left with a clingy girl with no self-respect. Forget that.

    As for being worried about your "sleeping around," if you&#39;re really that worried about it just find yourself a nice boyfriend or fuckbuddy. It&#39;s not exactly sleeping around if you&#39;re only sleeping with one dude at a time.
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    i was gonna say that I like slutty girls b/c you can do anything with them...

    but then I remember that 90% of the fun is getting an innocent girl to do all of that stuff.

    so I&#39;d say, stay innocent like until I get ahold of you
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    Morals. Morals morals morals. I may need to loosen my morals at some point as the novelty of being a virgin is beginning to wear thin. Who am I to give you advice BUT - please don&#39;t become a giant slut

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    Yeah I imagine It&#39;s nowhere near as exciting to fuck a slut as it is to fuck a regular chick who doesn&#39;t usually do one night stands...(I&#39;ve only had two! Yippee! Oh wait...if you fucked your 3 year long crush does that count?? Darn..)

    I&#39;ve got a friend who has slept with over 35 guys, most of them unprotected ("but I&#39;m on the pill!" she screamed...she&#39;s a christian too..uhuh..) and a friend of mine took one look at her and said "she&#39;s a slut isn&#39;t she?"...he could "just tell".

    To me that kind of .. sticky cloud over my head is not worth the root. I love sex, sooo much, and we all know this, but to go out on the weekend and search for cock has not and will not ever be my thing. I would rather find one guy and fuck him as much as possible...mmm. I&#39;m off to flick the bean! Lol!
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    If you find someone who you get along with, who is respectful to you and who is desirable to you, why not start a sexual relationship? So many relationships these days revolve around the sexual aspect because so many young people are busy with school and their jobs and don&#39;t have time for a full fledged relationship, but still crave intimacy and physical contact. Believe me, it does not make you a slut if you have a couple people that you hook up with from time to time. Just be safe about it. It&#39;s important to have your needs met.

    If you arent the kind of person who feels comfortable with no strings attached sex, and you feel like it devalues you as a person, then I guess that sort of non-relationshio wouldn&#39;t work out well for you because you would end up feeling worse in the end. It comes down to what kind of person you are at your core, and what you are capable of. Will it make you feel guilty or dirty to be in bed with someone you don&#39;t neccesarily have romantic feelings for?

    In the end, if you do feel guilty or bad about it, you shouldn&#39;t. Just do what feels right to you with whom it feels right to be with. Whether that guy is going to be your long term boyfriend or just someone you are happy to have in your life and who gives you something you need. People tend to take themselves too seriously when it comes to sex, and it puts the pussy on a pedestal. Or the dick, in this case. Sex can be so meaningful with the right person, and it can be so fun and light hearted with the right person, too. It doesn&#39;t always have to mean something.

    Good luck. And as for the sluts thing, I think sluts are super hot. Not dirty, skanky sluts, but a slutty girl who just looks at you with those naughty eyes.... phew. You gotta love a girl who can eye fuck you, and little innocent girls can&#39;t do that. Only the slutty ones.
    "God forbid I exude confidence and enjoy sex." Sarah Michelle Gellar, Cruel Intentions.

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