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So, I've had trouble with being too big for girls (my dick is probably only like 7.5", or maybe a bit larger). Anyway, my gf and I have quite a bit of sex when we see each other, which is probably about 3 times a week. We usually have sex about three times, night and morning. Sometimes though she can get really sore. We've moved to using lube, which she says really helps, but sometimes either when we start into sex or after 5-10 minutes we will have to stop because the sex hurts her.
Is there anything that can help out with soreness for girls? I don't really mind, I mean a couple times of sex is fine for me, though if I get more I'm not gonna complain. I think she feels bad though, and I'll tell her not to worry but I think she still does a little, so if you know of anything then shoot some suggestions my way.
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slow and low, that is the tempo
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i have a similar problem where my boyfriend sometimes hurts me with his giant penis. I thought it might be something to worry about and the doctor just told me he was too big.
I tend to rush things a bit, and i have found if we slow things down and focus on lots of foreplay, its actually alot more pleasureable, and it hurts less. i'm very impatient though and just want to do it. Now i let him set the pace, and he takes his time a bit more, and its a whole lot more fulfilling. although it sucks i seem to have lost the ability to have a quickie.
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Yeah make sure you're doing positions with the least amount of friction at first. I get sore pretty easily with certain positions if I do them too long.
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ghetto...for my sanity...stop posting in sex topics.
its too much. and its even creeping ME out.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Isaku @ Nov 5 2008, 12:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>Oh well?ghetto...for my sanity...stop posting in sex topics.
its too much. and its even creeping ME out.[/b]
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Definitely go slow. If you can make sure she gets off atleast once before you even have sex. Then avoid going too deep when you do have sex - it hurts like a bitch if you're big.
Make sure she's completely wet either on her own or with lube before you start. If she's dry and the skin around her vag isn't lubed up, it'll pull and pinch and could tear a bit - then she'll be sore all day whenever she's touched there.
If you're doing it three times a day - try to make the first two less intense. And use positions that are more..open, I guess. If her legs are closed, it'll cause friction and she'll get sore. Save those for when she's got recovery time afterwards.
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So, like, I got this giant fuckin cack, and I don't know what to do about it.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Lothar @ Nov 5 2008, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>"My potent sexual energy renders my partner unconscious - any suggestions for solutions?"So, like, I got this giant fuckin cack, and I don't know what to do about it.[/b]
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Hey, it just means less foreplay (kissing and stuff).
Yeah I was in the same position you were, less and less she was willing to put out due to this... And of course she wouldn't say anything, she would just put up with the pain and discomfort... Eventually when she did say something, could of been after she bled?... I did some research on it, and like everyone else said nice and slow, get her wet and then poke... Foreplay = Magic
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Unfortunately I have had this problem since puberty. My girth is too big (about 7 " around) and it's been more of a liability than an asset. I have learned to be extremely patient and let the girl do what she wants to and get used to it. Sex before a strong emotional attachment is non existent because of it. Maybe some hand or oral but insertion brings serious rejection unless we are attached emotionally. My length is about 8" but that is not the problem. I am cursed and if I could change it I would to more normal.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Mindscrape @ Nov 4 2008, 10:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>So, I've had trouble with being too big for girls (my dick is probably only like 7.5", or maybe a bit larger). Anyway, my gf and I have quite a bit of sex when we see each other, which is probably about 3 times a week. We usually have sex about three times, night and morning. Sometimes though she can get really sore. We've moved to using lube, which she says really helps, but sometimes either when we start into sex or after 5-10 minutes we will have to stop because the sex hurts her.
Is there anything that can help out with soreness for girls? I don't really mind, I mean a couple times of sex is fine for me, though if I get more I'm not gonna complain. I think she feels bad though, and I'll tell her not to worry but I think she still does a little, so if you know of anything then shoot some suggestions my way.
7" AROUND, guys. Aren't you all impressed?
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Syco @ Aug 10 2008, 11:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>Vaginas are always wet and always on the way to or on the way from excreting something.
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