Thread: Player?

its means they want to break up with you but want you to feel good about it. I hate that line.

Also, about you being able to do better, people have said that to me. I don't listen to them though. You can decide for yourself what you want, and maybe you can do better, i probably could do better, but it doesn't matter, because i'm with the person i've chosen to be with and we are both going to strive to make it work. "better" is so subjective anyway. My sister is convinced that she's never going to do better than her current partner because she's a district prosecutor earning 6 figures. Pity she's being treated like crap. everyone measures it differently. Seems my sister measure it in money, some people measure it in looks, others in personality. You need to find the right balance for youself.

Don't worry about your reputation as a player. Just go out there and meet new people and when they get to know you they'll find out what you are really like.

I think you're a little full of yourself.

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I&#39;ll just say all the bartenders know me by name and love when I show up, I&#39;m guessing I must entertain them pretty well[/b]

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I tend to run with a fairly attractive crowd[/b]

-I just don&#39;t see how this is even relevant to your issue.

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the best line I always get from girls is "you are to good for me" what does that even mean to good?[/b]

-You do know what this means, you&#39;re 24 years old, it&#39;s a little too late to be playing the innocent, "what does that even mean?!" card.

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I&#39;m always the nice guy[/b]

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girls always ask me for my relationship advice, but yet never take it and it always ends up with me being right[/b]

I just think you&#39;re doing a lot of talking yourself up, while not trying to seem like you are. Your friends don&#39;t think any girl is good enough for you, and even when you get with a girl she doesn&#39;t even think she&#39;s good enough for you! Wow. I mean, as a woman I&#39;ll tell you that I would never break up with a guy because he was a great guy, or miss the opportunity to be in a relationship with a truly great guy.

Though I may tell a guy he was too good for me to avoid being honest with him and tell him I really can&#39;t see myself with him because he talks about himself and his entertaining bar antics way too much.

I&#39;m not trying to be a bitch, and I&#39;m not sure if you notice your own behavior, but it may help to focus on projecting yourself as a more down to earth, laid back guy who is focused more on getting to know the women at any given bar, nightclub, gym, resteraunt, etc, instead of counting out your great qualities on your fingers and toes.

As the ladies pointed out, don&#39;t think THAT highly of yourself.. To the smart, attractive women out there that is too cocky.. Cockiness is good, but to a certain point.. Over that they don&#39;t wanna deal with a guy that keeps pointing out that he&#39;s attractive as hell, genius, and has a big dick..

Take me for example, I am cocky... When I go out to a bar I can ask a girl for a number, doesn&#39;t guarantee I will get it but if she does say No, I&#39;m not gonna say "O I&#39;m too good for you anyway"... Understand what I&#39;m saying?

I did find a girl that is pretty and pretty much a genius, I used that bit of cockiness to get her, but now that I have her I&#39;ve toned it down due to the fact that she finds it a turn off if I go around preaching how sexy I seem to myself...

And I&#39;ve been with her for about 13 months now, before her my longest relationship was like 3 months if that...