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  1. 05-08-2009 08:18 PM #1
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    A couple of friends and I went to a party a couple months ago. One of the guys and I have been good friends since high school. He always had a crush on me, but I wasn't really attracted to him. Anyway, we both got hammered. At the end of the night we were the only ones still awake. We talked for a couple hours, and he confessed to me that he was still a virgin. I couldn't help laughing when he said it, just because I was surprised, but I apologized and told him that it was cool that he had held out for so long.

    Anyway, I don't know how it happened, but we ended up having sex. On the floor. In the middle of the living room. In the morning we kind of talked about it. We told each other that we weren't going to let it affect our friendship, blah, blah, blah.

    We haven't really talked since then, and I don't know what to do. I don't want things to be awkward between us, but it seems inevitable. How do you move on from something like this? He hasn't called me. Is it because he doesn't want to talk? Or does he just feel as weird about it as I do?
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  2. 05-08-2009 08:34 PM #2
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    Perhaps he did fancy you in school and is laughing his head off that the virgin story worked.


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  3. 05-08-2009 09:46 PM #3
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    He probably feels just as weird about it as you do.

    Give him some time and then talk with him. See how it plays out.
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  4. 05-08-2009 09:53 PM #4
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    He's probably gonna ask you if you want to go out drinking again.
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  5. 05-09-2009 02:18 AM #5
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (rubytuesday @ May 8 2009, 05:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    He probably feels just as weird about it as you do.

    Give him some time and then talk with him. See how it plays out.[/b]
    I agree with this advice. Try calling him if you don&#39;t hear from him by Monday.
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DeniseDawwwna @ May 8 2009, 07:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    we weren&#39;t going to let it affect our friendship[/b]
    With a virgin? He might not be able to hold back his gushing in person and so he&#39;s avoiding you.
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    Fuck him again!
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  8. 05-09-2009 03:22 PM #8
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (distracted @ May 9 2009, 04:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DeniseDawwwna @ May 8 2009, 07:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
    we weren&#39;t going to let it affect our friendship[/b]
    With a virgin? He might not be able to hold back his gushing in person and so he&#39;s avoiding you.
    [/b][/quote]


    I didn&#39;t think about that. Are guys that emotionally connected to sex/losing their virginity?
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  9. 05-09-2009 05:22 PM #9
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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DeniseDawwwna @ May 9 2009, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    I didn&#39;t think about that. Are guys that emotionally connected to sex/losing their virginity?[/b]
    its more like so:

    "Man, that was the first bitch to let me stick it in her. Better keep close so i can do it tomorrow!"
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  10. 05-10-2009 06:33 PM #10
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    Everyone is different. He could have an emotional connection to it causing him to be embarrassed. From the things I have heard, a girls first time is fairly regular (in proper conditions). Afterwords, she wants/needs some comfort in some way. Be it talking, snuggling, simply hanging out with the person, ect. Guys on the other hand can have a wide range of reactions, from simply being completely embarrassed and avoiding, to craving the person, to blabbing it to all there friends and everything in between.

    Given the fact that the both of you were drunk, I would guess that most likely he feels awkward. If after a week there has been no communication, I would try to contact him saying that you will let him have the time he needs, that you still want to be friends, and leave it at that.
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  12. 07-17-2009 02:57 AM #12
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    guys don't form that connection, no. it's been scientifically proven.
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    Really, then what am I?
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    I dunno, a poor false excuse for a man?
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    Lol, as I said everyone is different. There is a "norm", but not everyone falls into it.
    Although, it could be because I lost my virginity with someone I love...
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