Thread: Army Camps

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (AngelicalAxe @ May 23 2009, 04:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

Had sex in a army base gym.... anyone know if there are cameras in those things because apparantly I was set up....[/b]

I think you need to add more details.

What sort of details?

Basically he works in the gym on the army base, we went there after we went clubbing, I only met him a few days ago I did NOT plan on sleeping with him especially not in a gym!

I am not happy that it happened. He was just very persistant and because Im attracted to him he managed to get his own way. I was also scared that I was locked in a gym at 3am with a guy I barely know.

So I told my friend what happened she said that she told her boyfriend and apparantly he knows loads of guys in the army and they take girls to the gyms and film them.
I text him saying I had been thinking and how come there aren&#39;t cameras in the gym and he said because its not a public gym....Theres not much I can do about it now apart from learn from yet another mistake, I just want to know if anyone knows if they do have cameras in army base gyms?

i have heard similar things about army guys.
You need to be more careful

First of all, unless you were drugged you were just as much at fault for fucking as he was.

That said, it&#39;s usually illegal to film someone fucking without their consent.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Lothar @ May 24 2009, 08:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

First of all, unless you were drugged you were just as much at fault for fucking as he was.

That said, it&#39;s usually illegal to film someone fucking without their consent.[/b]

Ummm, im not saying its not my fault I did agree to it in the end...
However, that statement is a little stupid just because drugs arent involved doesnt mean someone cant be forced into something.... I wasn&#39;t forced im just saying....

i once had an experience where i went back to an army base for my one and only one night stand.
Previously to that, they had alot of bad press about girls being taped without their knowledge and other guys watching adn stuff. I didn&#39;t think about it at all until i was there, and his wardrobe door opened up all by itself. It totally freaked me out. He said he didn&#39;t know why it did that, but then i remembered all the stories, and convinced myself that someone was in there. I made him turn on the lights, and then i discovered that he had also taken off the condom in the middle of having sex with me.

If you must, maybe its better to take them back to your place, or somewhere more neutral. Some dodgy stuff happens with all that male bonding.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (AngelicalAxe @ May 24 2009, 10:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Lothar @ May 24 2009, 08:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

First of all, unless you were drugged you were just as much at fault for fucking as he was.

That said, it&#39;s usually illegal to film someone fucking without their consent.[/b]

Ummm, im not saying its not my fault I did agree to it in the end...
However, that statement is a little stupid just because drugs arent involved doesnt mean someone cant be forced into something.... I wasn&#39;t forced im just saying....
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Well, in your situation it&#39;s not rape, therefore you weren&#39;t forced into anything. Explain to me how that&#39;s stupid.

You made the series of decisions that wound up with you getting a dicking at 3 A.M. in a gym. On an Army base.

well you have further explained yourself now!

BUT I dont think its fair to say that people cant be pressured into something unless its classed as rape....I wouldnt have done it if he didnt pressure me to do it in the slightest.... but I agree that it was bad decision making on my part that meant I ended up there in the first place.

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (AngelicalAxe @ May 25 2009, 05:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

BUT I dont think its fair to say that people cant be pressured into something unless its classed as rape....[/b]

Being taken advantage of and being raped are absolutely not the same thing.

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I wouldnt have done it if he didnt pressure me to do it in the slightest....[/b]

I&#39;m not trying to make you feel bad or anything, but I&#39;m just going to be brutally honest. It almost seems like you did something that you wanted (at least a little bit) at the moment and then started feeling regret later. You even said that you were attracted to him. Yeah, maybe he&#39;s a jerk, but not a rapist. And the whole "jerk" thing is probably not even true, because I can&#39;t think of anything he did wrong. I really don&#39;t understand you&#39;re reasoning. You were scared being alone with a guy in the gym at 3am, so you thought it best to have sex with him?

I&#39;m just annoyed because I think this whole situation is bullshit. If you don&#39;t want to have sex with someone, say no. Don&#39;t do it and then turn around and blame him.

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If you don&#39;t want to have sex with someone, say no. Don&#39;t do it and then turn around and blame him.[/b]

Aimee gets it 100%.

Oh fuck off you two she&#39;s not asking for your advice she knows she screwed up.

Sorry Angelica don&#39;t know, I hope for your sake that didn&#39;t happen .

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (AngelicalAxe @ May 23 2009, 08:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I am not happy that it happened. He was just very persistant and because Im attracted to him he managed to get his own way. I was also scared that I was locked in a gym at 3am with a guy I barely know.[/b]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Aimee @ May 25 2009, 11:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I really don&#39;t understand you&#39;re reasoning. You were scared being alone with a guy in the gym at 3am, so you thought it best to have sex with him?[/b]

My thoughts exactly Aimee. Just doesn&#39;t make sense. Sounds like you got what you wanted, and you just want us all to know that you had sex in an army gym; how hot, congratulations.

( this was a post I tried to delete but dont know how )