Roommate!

**Spikertk** · 12-28-2009 11:19 PM

I recently moved out of an apartment with a Male and Female Roommate. The female one is extremely pretty and we have both discussed about how we are super amazingly close to one another, and nothing sexual or relationship wise has happened.

We talked about this a bit in the past before moving out. Now I am out of the apartment 2 days in my parents house and we have decided to become "Fuck Buddies". She would drive over here at night while my parents are sleeping (Around 11:00PM and 4:00 AM) and we would do stuff.

Problem is, I have always wanted to do shit with her, but it feels like I am gonna have my best best friend come over and we are gonna start fooling around, it's not a "Oh god, I get to bone somebody I've always wanted to", its more of a "Oh shit, wtf do I do while she is over here...". I guess I'm just nervous but what should I be worrying about, and what should I do.

She wants to come over one of these nights and 'Cuddle and watch a movie'. Good first move? It's like I am in high school all over again, and I live in the basement where I can just hide random girls to bone down here.

Maybe I'm all off, maybe I shouldn't be such a big pussy and just do what I want with her (We discussed boundaries and we came to the agreement of 'Do whatever you want, cuz it's all for fun'.)

I have no intention of dating this women for a few different reasons. Any comments, I'd appreciate them VERY much.

**Jet** · 12-29-2009 01:21 AM

what are the reasons for not dating? i think f buddies are a bad idea, especially with friends. doing whatever you want because it's all for fun will end in tears.

**Spikertk** · 12-29-2009 02:06 AM

We plan on not dating because she knows as soon as I get my car working (Which will take about a month or so) I am going on a huge road trip and living where I end up. She is staying here to finish her schooling out for cosmetology school.

**devils_lil_angel** · 04-12-2010 03:14 AM

I would go with the movie thing to start with, allow things to progress from there. If that night things go farther then they do, and if they don't...oh well. There is no point in worrying about it if everything has been discussed. Just go with the flow.

**Gosu** · 04-12-2010 03:14 PM

Yeah. Quit stressing and just run with it. Think of her as just another hot girl and you'll be fine, it's not like it's a big deal if you're not going out.