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Reply With QuoteSome people just have higher sex drive than others. Nothing odd about that. Me, I'd want sex every day, but I only get it a few times a week. So I have the same problem as you. How I deal with it? Think of other things to do.
when relationships get boring.. Okay, i have a boyfriend, that seem's to not like sex anymore. I don't think he's cheating because were together all the time. I don't think he's gay because we've had our bawm sex...He might be bored, but i'm bored too and still get horny. I asked him about this and he says "We don't need to have sex all the time, because were gonna be together for a long time"?? I think he's thinking about that fact too much and it's starting to affect our sex, if so what should i do?. Once he said that all that came to mind was "wtf is he talking about!". Out of the boyfriends that I have had none of them rejected sex. It sucks because i just turned 20 and i think that my body is changing i've never been the type to get horny i would just fuck, but now i look at an attractive guy and start wondering and imagining stuff;P and it's realy bothering me that he's taking me for granted. Keep em coming people I wanna hear it all, don't hold back!
Some people just have higher sex drive than others. Nothing odd about that. Me, I'd want sex every day, but I only get it a few times a week. So I have the same problem as you. How I deal with it? Think of other things to do.
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I had the same thing with both of my boyfriends. They got comfortable before I did.
I have zero advice hahaha. Situation sucks.
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there are a handful of things that come to mind.. watch porn,get a toy,take the tv out of the bedroom,suprise him..give him oral when hes not expecting ...example is when hes playing video games,or taking a shower... or when you wake up before he does....get some sexy outfits/night wear to surpise him with when you can. give him road head.. tell him you want to slow dance at night when hes watching tv or on the computer turn it off and put a song on..go skinny dippin with him.. give him a massage...feed him more sex foods..aphrodisiac they are called..
play dress up for him at the mall..tell him he hasnt fucked you hard enough yet and that u want him to fuck you till you cant walk.. that always gets my attention.
ummm what else tie him up.. you can also tell him you want to break your record for orgasims your boyfriend wants to please you too.
most of the time us guys are not in the mood or take you girls forgranted is when somethings bothing us.. he might be stressed out or tired.. or a number of things i think you should ask him if hes doing okay before trying anything new.. and ask him which of the things hed like to try.. or if hes into role playing you can try that stuff too. good luck
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Nothing trashy and tasteless about enhancing ones sex life by whatever means necessary. Well, within reason of course.
To hearts_guns- If you two are bored with your sex life, then you two are not sexing properly. Dont be an uncreative D-bag. Effort is vital. Imagination essential. Handcuffs a plus. Lead by example. I would save a "our sex is boring, is that the problem?" talk for another day. First try methods of suprise, like cook for him naked, forget to wear underwear and go out to dinner and slip his hand up to the goods while waiting for dessert, or something of that nature. Do something to catch him off gaurd. See how he respondes to that, if he respondes well then maybe he will follow suit and get the message that you are interested and invested in trying new things to spice it up. If he is still a lamer who is not interested then perhaps you are dating a lazy penis? If that is the case then you may be in for a world of throbbing genitals, and I would suggest buying a Rabbit for relief.
WTF is wrong with this guy, seriously. I guy not being interested in sex is just weird.
Unless he's realised you aren't very hot.
Relationships of every kind, are a lot of work! How can there even be a relationship if each of you do not put effort into keeping it alive and growing? Sex is the bonus part of your relationship, shouldn't the reason for your relationship. We only receive from our relationships what we are willing to invest in them. Sometimes, it is better to have a friend with benefits.
To have meaning in a relationship is a lot of work. Perhaps a friend with benefits is more in line with your present thinking?
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