How can I get him to touch me?

**The weird girl** · 12-20-2003 10:33 PM

Okay I am REALLY into this guy I am dating and I have snogged him a few times, but he hasn't 'touched' me, like feel me up, or down, and I want him to. How do I go about asking? Do I just plain out ask him, or the next time we snogg put his hands in places or guide them? Please help!

**freshmangojuice** · 12-20-2003 10:52 PM

yeah i reckon just guide him - have U felt him maybe hes waiting for you to make the first move

~fresh~

**The weird girl** · 12-20-2003 11:14 PM

That is possible I'll see what I can do.. Anybody else got something?

gubba · 12-20-2003 11:15 PM

yes. put his hand in yout pants.

heheh.

**dilatedhank** · 12-21-2003 01:04 AM

you could ask... i would not mind at all if a girl asked me in a sexy voice to touch her. i mean what kinda guy wouldnt?

yes, or feel him down.

**mister_love** · 12-21-2003 02:58 AM

this isn't much of a problem, unless he's gay he's going to have a field day with this. The only obstacle that seems to be in the way is that he may not know you're ready for him to feel you up.

gubba · 12-21-2003 03:06 AM

just go at it for a bit, make out, run your fingers thru his hair- get him all hot and bothered, then when you're both breathing really hard, say something like 'mmmm i want you to touch me' all deep and sultry like, you should eliminate the problem. quite quickly. very simple.

whatever works for you, why do you need to ask????

**Tequesian** · 12-21-2003 05:04 AM

Could always try what the girls do when they want me to play with them. Just tie a pork chop around your neck and stand upwind of him.

Heh, anyway nice to see you again weird girl.

**jimbojonesnz** · 12-21-2003 05:05 AM

Get naked=simple solution

**The weird girl** · 12-21-2003 10:20 AM

Thanx a bunch guys, i'm just really shy (with guys). I wasn't sure how to go about it. I think I have an idea how to do it now....

Pixie · 12-21-2003 12:12 PM

Pounce him when you're alone and stuff his hand up your top, that should be a slight hint.

**mister_love** · 12-21-2003 02:52 PM

Originally posted by jimbojonesnz@Dec 21 2003, 03:05 AM
Get naked=simple solution

this works too

**Special K** · 12-22-2003 01:49 AM

Originally posted by mister_love@Dec 21 2003, 01:58 AM
this isn't much of a problem, unless he's gay he's going to have a field day with this.

Hmm.

. I didn't like that response.

"Senator Love, I'm terribly afraid that I'm going to have to disagree, sir ."

Sure--eventually, physical love represents the ultimate 'coolness' for both guys and girls. But just because Mr. 'Reluctant-to-Touch' checks the 'M' box on his college applications doesn't necessarily mean that he has an inherent urge to grope every member of the opposite sex in a three meter radius. And that in turn does not make him 'gay'.

For many, the step into the physical zone is a big one. It is for me personally. I'll readily admit right here that I'm a complete and total virgin. I'm still searching for my 'connecting-on-a-higher-plane-princess' girl before I, umm--yeah.

Does that make me superior? HA! No.

But it does prove that different people have different goals in a relationship. This particular individual may just not be ready yet.

My advice: talk to him about it. If he's not ready, wait 'till he is. If he is ready, ...

hee. hee. hee.

But remember also that a person who may not necessarily want to take a relationship to the physical level is not automatically gay or prudish.

He could just be a completely unrealistic romantic. Like me.

.

**Free Me** · 12-22-2003 02:04 AM

Yeah....guys with wondering hands are fun!

**mister_love** · 12-22-2003 03:43 AM

Originally posted by (= Kulyrs =)+Dec 21 2003, 11:49 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE ((= Kulyrs =) @ Dec 21 2003, 11:49 PM)</div>

<!--QuoteBegin-mister_love

@Dec 21 2003, 01:58 AM
this isn't much of a problem, unless he's gay he's going to have a field day with this.

Hmm.

. I didn't like that response.

"Senator Love, I'm terribly afraid that I'm going to have to disagree, sir ."

Sure--eventually, physical love represents the ultimate 'coolness' for both guys and girls. But just because Mr. 'Reluctant-to-Touch' checks the 'M' box on his college applications doesn't necessarily mean that he has an inherent urge to grope every member of the opposite sex in a three meter radius. And that in turn does not make him 'gay'.

For many, the step into the physical zone is a big one. It is for me personally. I'll readily admit right here that I'm a complete and total virgin. I'm still searching for my 'connecting-on-a-higher-plane-princess' girl before I, umm--yeah.

Does that make me superior? HA! No.

But it does prove that different people have different goals in a relationship. This particular individual may just not be ready yet.

My advice: talk to him about it. If he's not ready, wait 'till he is. If he is ready, ...

hee. hee. hee.

But remember also that a person who may not necessarily want to take a relationship to the physical level is not automatically gay or prudish.

He could just be a completely unrealistic romantic. Like me.

.

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yea, true

but most guys are going to go for it

but I know what you mean

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