Thread: She was textin'

Yup. She's found a new emotional tampon.[/b]

erg i feel all used and...dirty.

ill take my hat off to you for the effort... but it is kinda out of context. i mean, as a result of what happened, i dont think all women are lowly creatures that never really commit to a relationship. (or whatever degrading points Peaches has made about men). In fact, im quite looking forward to going out again without thinking about this girl, i can find someone that doesnt treat me like shit. I have a feeling there are girls out there better than this one. Tryin to put a positive spin on it. Not giving up on female-kind yet.[/b]

Please. I never said men were lowly creatures. Neither do I think it. I just really don't understand why the committ to relationships since it's obvious what they really want.

And I also don't fall into the mindset that it's your fault for the way people treat you all the time. Sometimes it is, sometimes it's not.

Please. I never said men were lowly creatures. Neither do I think it. I just really don't understand why the committ to relationships since it's obvious what they really want.[/b]

What is it that all men really want from a relationship then?

Maybe sometimes we commit to relationships because we are in love. Or does the concept seem too alien to you?

The human desire to spend their time on this planet with another being, who loves them back.

Hell it doesnt even have to be love, a strong attraction, respect, caring... not every guy just wants to watch porn, grab a girl, go out with her and think about the girl on the porn video as he screws them.

I dont know what happened to you, as you wont tell... but give us a fucking break. Can you not tell from this thread that it was actually me being treated like shit by a girl, not the other way round.

I was crazy about her. And i didnt want to go out with her just so i could sleep with her, the very idea of using her like that pisses me off.

(For those who want to know, im giving me and her space. The past two times ive done this, shes come back to me. But ill work that out if it happens.)[/b]

yeah so...as i thought, she came into work today to talk to me, and after work she was textin me.

its been about 2 weeks since we spoke, i no this doesnt sound long but when your used to seeing the person everyday its a bit of a system shock.

She says shes gonna break up with her bf very soon, as they just argue all the time now... and that she hasnt been seeing anyone else.

I want to go and play with fire again

Do what you will but I am telling you she is not into you and never will be. She wants you as moral support, nothing more than a friend. This will only lead to sexually frustrating you, but go ahead.

Hedgey you are really fucking intense you just need to chill out mate seriously. She's like not even your girlfriend so why fucking care mate.[/b]

you're being an idiot.[/b]

thats what i needed. thanks.